Could you? Or have you?

[Pickles77]

I'm just sat in my garden having a brew and a think. I know we are alone and have been dealt some shite cards but we all have/will have our lovely LO's. So what I would like to ask is: Could you forgive, not forget, what your exes/ sperm donors have done?
Purely because they have given you a whole new life, yes it's challenging, tough & most of the time (well me!) looks like a train wreck.
But could you, especially if they are in your DCs life?

The only thing i think/feel when i think of my ex is pity.

I pity him coz hes in a relationship where hes not happy(he left me 2b with her). But more importantly i pity him because hes missing out on the wonderful child that i have.

I dont feel the need to forgive & forget as he will never change.