What do you all do wrt having someone round while your dc are there ??

[TheOriginalNutcracker]

I struggle with this big time and i'm not sure why.

I have 2 dd's 14&12 and a ds who is 9. Ds goes to bed around 8pm and then the girls drift up and are normally in their beds by 10pm.

So in those circumstances, how would you feel about inviting a bloke round ?? For a drink, not rolling around on the floor ??

I have done it before but as the girls get older and go to bed later I am not sure of the rules lol. I know people that just tell their dc that they are having a friend round for a drink and introduce said friend, but i'm not keen on that tbh.

I cant see how i am ever going to meet anyone if i cant have them round at mine though.

glad to see that you did it nutcracker :)

sunshineandbooks I totally agree with you post

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And ive managed to cock things up with the bloke already lol.

I am so not cut out for this dating lark lol.

why what happened?
I have had three dates with a new bloke in the past week or so,we have met during the day,I think he's great and he's coming to stay on Sat night,the kids are staying out for the night,am looking forward to it, but have started to feel really nervous that I'll put him off,I feel so boring around him as I'm a bit shy because I like him arrrggg,don't want to put him off ....