I mean a proper one, with frocks, food and no small children?
As I recall, no-one is tied to the house with tiny ones....feel free to beat me with Witloof if I am wrong...
I am at work all the time, so better to leave a daytime meet up to someone who is free in the day....
But we have Xmas markets, log fires, genever and a multitude of exciting places to meet up. What do you think?