oh my god..........

[benandoli]

Help I have just found out I am pregnant with number 4. Havent told DH yet he will be horrified as will my parents and in laws. Help.

i was also in a similar situation 5 years ago, after finding out i was pregnant with dc4 when dc3 (dd1) was just 4 months old. the product of that has just started school, and my family is complete- i have 2 boys who are 11 and 9, and now 2 gorgeous little girls who are 5 and 4. they truly are wonderful

We agonised over what to do decided to go ahead and became really excited. Because we agonised so much i think we really thought about how dc4 would fit in. I have just had an awful miscarriage and would now give the world to be having dc4. So sad.

So sorry Benandoli .

I'm so sorry

oh that's horrid. Sending love and healing to your broken plans. x

Oh gosh Benandoli - how awful for you :( Thinking of you