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Sedation for ER - conscious or deep?

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PinkElephants356 · 12/08/2026 18:14

Hello all,

I am very nervous about the egg retrieval and am currently choosing between clinics. It seems some offer nurse led sedation which is light/ conscious sedation with midazolam and alfentanyl and some offer deep sedation with midazolam, alfentanyl and propofol.

I don’t like the thought of being out of control and put under but on the other hand it might be good if I’m very nervous to have more sedation so I’m not awake during the procedure.

Can anyone please give me any insights into which might be better based on their experience please?

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contentsmayb · 12/08/2026 20:21

I only had full sedation which I loved! The best sleep ever. I think I’d be quite nervous if I was awake as I’d be worried too much about how many eggs are retrieved.

ButterscotchBabe · 12/08/2026 20:58

The NHS clinic I went to only did conscious sedation, it was horrendous, felt everything. Definitely go with the deep sedation, you just go to sleep and wake up when it's done!

Grumpsy · Yesterday 05:41

I had an egg retrieval a few days ago under deep sedation and, based on my experience, I would definitely choose deep sedation again if you have the option.

I personally had no concerns about being – I was much happier with the idea of going to sleep and waking up when it was all over than being conscious during the procedure. Given that they are passing a needle through the vaginal wall and aspirating multiple follicles from your ovaries, being awake for it really wasn’t an experience I felt I needed!

In fact, when I woke up I said to the anaesthetist, “I haven’t been asleep, have I?” and he looked at me and said, “You definitely have.” From my perspective, it felt like virtually no time had passed at all.

Obviously everyone feels differently about sedation, but for me it was absolutely the right choice. Having done it once, I would choose deep sedation again without hesitation, and I’m very glad that my clinic didn’t give me the option of conscious sedation.

PinkElephants356 · Yesterday 12:44

ButterscotchBabe · 12/08/2026 20:58

The NHS clinic I went to only did conscious sedation, it was horrendous, felt everything. Definitely go with the deep sedation, you just go to sleep and wake up when it's done!

Thanks. When you say it was conscious sedation do you know if they still used midazolam so you were kind of out of it or did they not give you anything?

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Zypig · Yesterday 12:50

I’ve had deep sedation every time and it’s been great. My friend had conscious sedation a few month ago and she said it was horrific.

PinkElephants356 · Yesterday 12:56

Grumpsy · Yesterday 05:41

I had an egg retrieval a few days ago under deep sedation and, based on my experience, I would definitely choose deep sedation again if you have the option.

I personally had no concerns about being – I was much happier with the idea of going to sleep and waking up when it was all over than being conscious during the procedure. Given that they are passing a needle through the vaginal wall and aspirating multiple follicles from your ovaries, being awake for it really wasn’t an experience I felt I needed!

In fact, when I woke up I said to the anaesthetist, “I haven’t been asleep, have I?” and he looked at me and said, “You definitely have.” From my perspective, it felt like virtually no time had passed at all.

Obviously everyone feels differently about sedation, but for me it was absolutely the right choice. Having done it once, I would choose deep sedation again without hesitation, and I’m very glad that my clinic didn’t give me the option of conscious sedation.

Thanks I’m so glad it went well for you.

Im finding the whole thing so overwhelming at the moment.

Can I ask what clinic you used please?

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Grumpsy · Yesterday 12:57

PinkElephants356 · Yesterday 12:56

Thanks I’m so glad it went well for you.

Im finding the whole thing so overwhelming at the moment.

Can I ask what clinic you used please?

Avenues in London.

PinkElephants356 · Yesterday 12:58

contentsmayb · 12/08/2026 20:21

I only had full sedation which I loved! The best sleep ever. I think I’d be quite nervous if I was awake as I’d be worried too much about how many eggs are retrieved.

Thanks. Yeah I’m really not sure what is best. I don’t like the thought of being ‘put under’ but at the same time I really want to make sure I’m not nervous half way through and they have to stop!

Its all so overwhelming I genuinely don’t know if I can do it!

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PinkElephants356 · Yesterday 12:59

Zypig · Yesterday 12:50

I’ve had deep sedation every time and it’s been great. My friend had conscious sedation a few month ago and she said it was horrific.

When you say conscious sedation did they still give her something to make her a bit woozy at least?

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Grumpsy · Yesterday 13:03

PinkElephants356 · Yesterday 12:59

When you say conscious sedation did they still give her something to make her a bit woozy at least?

If you’re already really nervous about the collection, personally I’d seriously consider the deep sedation if your clinic offers it. It’s not quite the same as a full general anaesthetic – with deep sedation you’re generally asleep but breathing for yourself – and for me it was basically just a short nap. I remember the anaesthetist giving me the medication and then the next thing I knew they were telling me it was finished.

Conscious sedation is absolutely a valid option and plenty of women are happy with it, but if they’re giving you medication to make you relaxed/woozy anyway, I’d ask myself how important it really is to be present for the collection itself. You might not be particularly interested, or capable of watching follicles or keeping track of numbers once you’re sedated.

With deep sedation you can just go to sleep, let them do what they need to do, and when you wake up they’ll tell you exactly how the collection went. If being awake is what’s making you anxious, I personally wouldn’t put myself through that just for the sake of being awake.

PinkElephants356 · Yesterday 13:52

Grumpsy · Yesterday 13:03

If you’re already really nervous about the collection, personally I’d seriously consider the deep sedation if your clinic offers it. It’s not quite the same as a full general anaesthetic – with deep sedation you’re generally asleep but breathing for yourself – and for me it was basically just a short nap. I remember the anaesthetist giving me the medication and then the next thing I knew they were telling me it was finished.

Conscious sedation is absolutely a valid option and plenty of women are happy with it, but if they’re giving you medication to make you relaxed/woozy anyway, I’d ask myself how important it really is to be present for the collection itself. You might not be particularly interested, or capable of watching follicles or keeping track of numbers once you’re sedated.

With deep sedation you can just go to sleep, let them do what they need to do, and when you wake up they’ll tell you exactly how the collection went. If being awake is what’s making you anxious, I personally wouldn’t put myself through that just for the sake of being awake.

Thanks I think that is good advice. Were you able to breath on your own with deep sedation?

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MinPinSins · Yesterday 13:58

I had conscious sedation and really rate it (and I had 31 eggs received) so not a quick process. You're in and out quicker, and lower risk to you. However I don't have anxiety, or struggle a lot with pain, which I imagine would make a big difference.

Grumpsy · Yesterday 15:31

PinkElephants356 · Yesterday 13:52

Thanks I think that is good advice. Were you able to breath on your own with deep sedation?

Yes, I didn’t even realise I’d been asleep when they brought me round.

ButterscotchBabe · Yesterday 16:21

PinkElephants356 · Yesterday 12:44

Thanks. When you say it was conscious sedation do you know if they still used midazolam so you were kind of out of it or did they not give you anything?

Yes they used midazolam but it barely had an effect on me, I could still feel everything

PinkElephants356 · Yesterday 17:37

ButterscotchBabe · Yesterday 16:21

Yes they used midazolam but it barely had an effect on me, I could still feel everything

Ah this clinic said they use midazolam for sedation and alfentanyl for pain relief, did you have the pain relief part as well?

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PinkElephants356 · Yesterday 17:39

MinPinSins · Yesterday 13:58

I had conscious sedation and really rate it (and I had 31 eggs received) so not a quick process. You're in and out quicker, and lower risk to you. However I don't have anxiety, or struggle a lot with pain, which I imagine would make a big difference.

Thats interesting I hadn’t thought about the recovery time to be honest. Were you aware of what’s going on then in the procedure?

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PinkElephants356 · Yesterday 17:42

Grumpsy · Yesterday 15:31

Yes, I didn’t even realise I’d been asleep when they brought me round.

Thanks so much. Thats sound very nice to be honest.

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MinPinSins · Yesterday 19:54

PinkElephants356 · Yesterday 17:39

Thats interesting I hadn’t thought about the recovery time to be honest. Were you aware of what’s going on then in the procedure?

I was in that I was aware of what was happening. Not aware enough to know how many eggs were being retrieved.

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