3BB embryo transfer 2WW

[spamOFtheDAY]

Anyone with me…?!

We need to remember girls some people don't get positives until day 6/7/8/9pt! ❤️

Fingers crossed for us all @spamOFtheDAY @ALittleExpressive

@21RsMama thanks bud! Needed that reminder today!

That’s a wise decision

Ah thank you for your supportive words

oh jeeze it’s gutting isnt it

but l, still early
keeping everything crossed x

I second this! It’s sooo hard though. I can’t let myself start testing because I know it’s just a slippery slope and I won’t stop. Last time I I managed to hold out until 8dp5dt. aiming for the same or 7 days this time.

Sending luck and positive vibes to everyone and hoping we all get our positives 🥰

Just joining the wait as I'm also 6dp5dt. Testing daily with fmu. Stark negative this morning. I did have a trigger so I at least I know that's gone but getting down to the crunch now 😬

Try not to lose hope!

Hows everyone getting on? Like @hollyhd this morning I am 6dp5dt. Negative on a regular pregnancy test. Do have some clearview ultra early tests that I picked up last night but cant quite bring myself to test with them yet but maybe tomorrow........

6dp5dt is still early - hoping it turns positive for you soon 🤞🏻🙏🏻

I’m 4dp5dt and had a massive meltdown this morning about sleep 😅 I’m just having such bad insomnia that I keep thinking this can’t possibly work. I consoled myself with a Reddit thread about people who had had the same and had positive outcomes so feeling a bit calmer. I’m just wide awake at like midnight, then 2am then 3am etc.

Hope everyone is feeling okay xx

Hi all! @Emerald1986 @hollyhd @Hopeandfaith1990 crossing my fingers for you guys!

I caved yesterday 6dpt and done an ovum test which had a positive albeit a bit lighter but not a squinter, the kind any other human would see 😅

This morning though I took a wondfo which again has a positive and the kind that's obvious but not Hella dark. However I done a frer (the new packaging) and it looks neg. I mean I could squint and convince myself it's faint but honestly I think maybe I'm out.... I've never heard of frer being behind other tests. 🥺 Already im now upset over the summer baby I thought I might have 😭 I hate how hard this all is 😔

@spamOFtheDAY how are you? Been keeping everything crossed for you 🤞🏼❤️

@21RsMama it sounds that there's hope there! Everything crossed for you. Test again tomorrow.

I'm 7dp5dt and clear negative again this morning. Been reading some online stories about later positives to try and keep my spirits up!

I don't like the odds to be honest FRER are so sensitive they should be the first to pick up. I wish I was someone who has the willpower to test on 10dpt when it's a clear yes or no rather than this torture!

Maybe tomorrow we will get our positives!

I do have cramping like my period is coming so that's fun 😭

How are we all doing?

I'm 8dpt now and still positive on wondfo but no progression from a line that's not very dark. Thinking it could be a chemical 🥺

For anyone who's done more than one transfer, how long do you need to wait before transferring another embryo? We only have one left 😔 I had prostrap to start off this cycle so I'm worried I need to wait ages to do the next transfer.

That’s good you still have a line? It can take 48hrs to double so may still need time.
I really hope you have good news

I have full blown period now 😝
clinic has said to continue meds but finding that hard to do with my period so not sure I will continue

still had a super super faint line last night (ok now wondering if leaving the test in the bathroom while I showered might have impacted on the line so might do one last test this evening to check then I’m done)

my clinic said I won’t be able to do another round until next year due to Christmas closure but they might be able to get you in for a transfer on your next cycle (if it’s not good news)

@21RsMama I don’t know how much progression you’d see that early - it’s definitely good you’ve got a line and I’m hoping so much that it develops for you! Have you done anything other tests? Do you have symptoms? (Or as it’s also known, progesterone gaslighting)

I had a failed transfer in late Aug and just did my second one last week. I had a gap because I did a hysteroscopy in between. If I hadn’t done that I think I would have done a second transfer in Oct. If this current one doesn’t work (telling myself not to jinx it 😅😅) I’ll ask to do one right away but I’m not sure of their Christmas hours.

@spamOFtheDAY that’s so hard with the positive and the bleeding. A test tonight sounds like a good plan, what dpt are you? I’m sorry it’s so confusing :(

Sorry to hear that @spamOFtheDAY. Im still testing negative on a regular pregnancy test. Hubby doesn't know ive been testing and wanted us till saturday which is thr official test day of 9days post transfer but we've agreed ill test tomorrow with one of the clearview tests to prepare ourselves if its negative. As of 3pm today the 3bb will have been in for 7 whole days so I suspect it will be a failed cycle

Oh goodness, sounds like many of us are having a pretty average run, hey. We're 7DP5DT and still stark white over here too. We've pretty much accepted it's unlikely to happen for us this time. Test early is helping us come to term with the news. I'll keep watching this thread to see how it plays out for everyone else. It'd bring me a lot of joy to hear some of your positive endings. Hang in there all.

Hey girls, hope you are all ok!

Bad news over here too, took a frer this morning at 9dpt and there is the tiniest squinter. So I'm guessing we are out now too 😔

@spamOFtheDAY how are you? I'm so sorry AF came 😭 it's honestly like fuel to the fire that we need to go through that as well as the bad news.

@Emerald1986 @ALittleExpressive @Hopeandfaith1990 @hollyhd I hope today brings you all better luck!!!

It's a shit club to be in but you've all helped over the past few days. I spend most of my time wondering why this only affects me because everyone around is so blissfully unaware of how it can be a struggle, but having this little group has kept me sane (and a tiny bit less bitter 😆) ❤️❤️❤️

@21RsMama sorry it hasn’t been a clear or developing positive :-(

thank you for the luck! Trying to stay positive but it’s hard 😥 had some pretty significant cramping overnight.

Agreed this group has been helpful, wishing everyone luck and babydust going forward and lots of BFPs 💕

Negative here. Frustrating that my official test date is 13dpt, so I'm supposed to continue with the meds until then. I'm headachey, tired and emotional and I'd really like to stop the meds and have a glass of wine over the weekend. But my clinic are insisting it's far too early while everything I've read online says there's no chance now.

So sorry :( I was the same in my last transfer. I stopped the meds at 9DPT although clinic told me not to. I think you just have to make whatever decision is best for you at that time. Sending love.

I get exactly what you mean. Id love to just have a glass of wine and a cry tonight. I find it so odd they say that? Surely it gives us false hope? I mean I'd love it to happen like that and they proved us wrong but scientifically if we aren't producing HCG but now surely its not happening? And now I'll spiral all night thinking 'maybe I'll be the lucky one!' 😭

Oh, team, I hear you loud and clear and feel exactly the same. We're 9DP today and it's just crappy that we have to continue the meds and go through with the blood test. I would actually stop the meds today, but I don't happen to get bad symptoms from them, just a bit of tiredness, which I'm able to manage. I know others have this harder. I'm going to go hunting for some really yummy food this weekend to ease my sadness. Some sort of potato dauphinoise business... ha.

9dp5dt here and still a BFN. Clinic have advised to test again in 2 days and continue meds which i will do because like @ALittleExpressive I dont really get many side effects from them. But in my mind im now fully prepared that it'll probably be a final nhs fresh cycle in the new year

Sorry not to hear any good news on this thread

i have to say I have enjoyed a few glasses of wine this weekend and decided to stop the meds (it seemed a bit Silly to try using pessaries at the same time as tampons 😂!) and a waste of money to use up blood thinner infections!
I guess the clinic has a policy to tell us to go to test day but will expect us to make individual decisions that seem right for us