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IVF April 2023

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BiscuitLover3678 · 30/03/2023 17:55

anyone else due to start in April?

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StaceyWS88 · 06/05/2023 20:06

Hey do any of you have any experience with using these tests? I’ve been getting the faintest line on them but only when I look about 20 mins after doing the test. Should I disregard them?

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CR7 · 06/05/2023 20:09

@StaceyWS88 my sis used these. She said as long as the line appears before the five minutes is up and not after they are quite accurate x

CR7 · 06/05/2023 20:10

@StaceyWS88 does it say anything about time on the box?

StaceyWS88 · 06/05/2023 20:11

CR7 · 06/05/2023 20:10

@StaceyWS88 does it say anything about time on the box?

@CR7 Says 3-5 mins so I think I’m clutching at straws

TTCIVFMAMA · 06/05/2023 21:23

Hi all. Just looking for some comfort. Took another pregnancy test this morning & it doesn’t look like it’s progressing. Is this me out this round? xx

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CR7 · 06/05/2023 21:25

@TTCIVFMAMA it's so hard to tell as they are most accurate within five minutes. They say not to pay too much heed after that :-(

Where are you up to in your wait x

TTCIVFMAMA · 06/05/2023 21:26

@CR7 I’m on 9dp5dt xx

CR7 · 06/05/2023 21:28

@TTCIVFMAMA so so close! You're only two days behind me then? OTD Wednesday? Xx

TTCIVFMAMA · 06/05/2023 21:30

OTD is Monday 8th but I’m not sure the lines are progressing so wanted to prepare myself. Or should it just be a positive at this point? xx

CR7 · 06/05/2023 21:36

@TTCIVFMAMA i had a day five transfer on Tuesday April 25th. My OTD is Monday so I figured yours is Wednesday if you're two days behind me? But every clinic is different I suppose

Not sure how clear it should be as I'm not testing til Monday x

TTCIVFMAMA · 06/05/2023 21:41

I’m with Oxford so I’m not sure how they work out the test date. I wish I had your resilience. I’ve literally just been looking at the tests all day & I know the ones the clinic provide are also a lot less sensitive so don’t even pick up as quick as FRER. DO frozen embryos take longer to implant? xx

CR7 · 06/05/2023 21:42

@TTCIVFMAMA no exactly the same amount of time x

TTCIVFMAMA · 06/05/2023 21:45

Ahhh! That just makes me more nervous for Monday

CR7 · 06/05/2023 21:50

@TTCIVFMAMA just try to relax. So close now x

CR7 · 07/05/2023 11:07

@Vallef How are you xx

Frisbeee · 07/05/2023 12:20

@Vallef also thinking of you today and hope you’re ok x

Frisbeee · 07/05/2023 12:21

@CR7 @TTCIVFMAMA @Fizzle1987 good luck for your tests tomorrow!!

Fizzle1987 · 07/05/2023 12:27

Frisbeee · 07/05/2023 12:21

@CR7 @TTCIVFMAMA @Fizzle1987 good luck for your tests tomorrow!!

Thank you. Trying to keep myself busy today and not think about it too much. Xx

CR7 · 07/05/2023 12:38

Thank you @Frisbeee xx last day finally

Vallef · 07/05/2023 16:01

@CR7 @TTCIVFMAMA @Fizzle1987 ladies good luck tomorrow sending some baby dust to you all and please do let us know when you know as I personally will be on tender hooks with crossed fingers for all of you xx

Vallef · 07/05/2023 16:02

@BiscuitLover3678 @IVFfirsttimer91 and everyone thank you for your wishes also and the support xxx

Vallef · 07/05/2023 16:04

@Frisbeee thanks hun. Am on bed rest but bleeding has stopped now just had some brown/black type of spotting. Hopefully tomorrow I can find out if I can have an early scan xx

CR7 · 07/05/2023 16:10

Thank you @Vallef xx one more sleep to go. I promise to let you know. Fingers crossed for you too.

@TTCIVFMAMA and @Fizzle1987 thinking of you both. We are nearly there xx

BiscuitLover3678 · 07/05/2023 18:02

Im really thinking of you @Vallef ! Please let us know, but also no rush. You need to look after yourself and rest.

I’m only 4 days post transfer and so emotional. Could this be a sign of anything? I think this two week wait is worse than any other part of it. I was so lucky with the medications and injections having few side effects that I thought I’d be able to do it again if needed to. Now I’m not so sure! I don’t feel ready to give up at all but a part of me wants to feel in control again and like I can move on.

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CR7 · 07/05/2023 18:17

@BiscuitLover3678 if you can, try not to test. Some of the ladies on here do find the testing helpful but personally I think I found it much easier to be hopeful and calm when you're not on the testing rollercoaster. I'm on a few threads and many of the ladies have said that in hindsight they wished they hadn't tested as it ended up stressing them out more. But I know it's hard. On my first cycle (which was unsuccessful) I did cave twice and I regretted it and said I wouldn't do it to myself ever again xx