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IVF April 2023

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BiscuitLover3678 · 30/03/2023 17:55

anyone else due to start in April?

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CR7 · 01/05/2023 12:48

And thank you xx

StaceyWS88 · 01/05/2023 13:49

Frisbeee · 01/05/2023 09:34

Morning everyone, so I’ve had my day 3 call from the clinic and it’s not good news. None of my 6 embryos are developing properly and they’ve said it’s likely to be due to the egg quality as I’m 41. They are doing a double transfer today anyway but I’ve been told the chance of it working are slim to none. I’m literally devastated

Keeping everything crossed for you!! X

@CR7 It went well! It was a lot quicker than my last two which I was grateful for because I just wanted to wee!

Had a 4AA transferred and have a 4AB and 3BB going on freeze. They said I have some that are still developing so there could be more that are maybe a bit slow? Never heard of this before. Happy but nervous. OTD on the 13th.

CR7 · 01/05/2023 14:13

@StaceyWS88 yes I had a slow one also. Very normal. So so glad it went well for you. Had forgotten this was your third transfer same as me!!

So glad it went well xx

IVFlife · 01/05/2023 16:46

Had 1st stims scan this morning and only 1 follicle that they really seemed to count. Anyone else had this?

CR7 · 01/05/2023 16:47

@IVFlife you're only right st the start? Day three? X

IVFlife · 01/05/2023 16:49

CR7 · 01/05/2023 16:47

@IVFlife you're only right st the start? Day three? X

I've had 5 days of stims. I'm on a flare protocol due to low amh

CR7 · 01/05/2023 16:51

@IVFlife ooh I haven't heard of that. My amh is mega low so I did duo stim but I'll look into what you did x

Vallef · 01/05/2023 18:36

@Frisbeee hi hun am so sorry to hear your news :( have you spoken to the doctor is it maybe best you try another round of egg collection and take it from there? Just thinking of you and your mental state as Well. I also have embryos which weren't best of quality so I decided not to use them in transfer but of course do what feels right! Please don't lose hope!

Vallef · 01/05/2023 18:38

@StaceyWS88 good luck hun and try and relax now :)

CHARL82 · 01/05/2023 19:52

@IVFlife I was the sans only 1 follicle and had 1 egg extracted today. Fingers crossed it is mature and fertilised in the morning and lasts until day 3 and/or 5 for transfer. It only takes 1, so try to stay positive. You may also have more that grow over the next few days of stims.

IVFlife · 01/05/2023 20:15

@CHARL82 fingers crossed for you.

Did they go ahead ok with only 1 folicle. I'm worried my clinic will cancel unless more appear.

CHARL82 · 01/05/2023 20:23

@IVFlife
Yes they gave me the choice and said if I cancelled there is no saying I will have more next time. So, I thought that I need to give it a go.

CR7 · 01/05/2023 21:06

@CHARL82 your decision makes perfect sense x

CHARL82 · 02/05/2023 10:02

Unfortunately, we have had news that the egg shows abnormal fertilisation and this cycle has now been ended. Will find out what our next steps later today for round two.

CR7 · 02/05/2023 10:05

@CHARL82 sending you so much love xx so hard for you I know

BiscuitLover3678 · 02/05/2023 10:14

I’m so sorry @CHARL82 😢

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CHARL82 · 02/05/2023 10:16

@CR7 @BiscuitLover3678
Thank you 💜

StaceyWS88 · 02/05/2023 10:16

CHARL82 · 02/05/2023 10:02

Unfortunately, we have had news that the egg shows abnormal fertilisation and this cycle has now been ended. Will find out what our next steps later today for round two.

So sorry, wishing you luck for your next round ❤️

Frisbeee · 02/05/2023 10:16

Oh @CHARL82 I’m so sorry to hear that. Sending lots of positive thoughts to you for the next cycle x

Vallef · 02/05/2023 10:17

@CHARL82 am sending you strength and hugs to you. Please don't give up xx

Fizzle1987 · 02/05/2023 10:32

@CHARL82 sending lots of love and also lots of luck for your next round 💚 xx

Frisbeee · 02/05/2023 10:46

@Vallef thanks for your supportive message, I don’t know what id do without this forum at the moment 😊
the doctor and embryologist did still say they thought a day 3 double transfer was the best course of action so we went with it and clinging to the small amount of hope. I’m not sure how we’ll move forward after this cycle though. You’re right, it’s the mental health side that’s the toughest and literally nothing can prepare you for that.
hope all is still going well for you?

Vallef · 02/05/2023 13:18

@Frisbeee I know what you mean it has been so helpfull speaking to all you ladies who understand what were going through it's different with family and friends not that they know in my case and am sure in alot of people's lives as its such a personal thing. But please please don't give up. My oncologist wanted me to have a hysterectomy at 30 and I said no I want a baby. It's been 6 years but I will persevere the things worth having take a long time to come for some people unfortunately. I will recommend my doctor forever I know it's difficult because it's in Greece but my 2nd blood test came back and am at 1050 I think so now have a scan date for the 12th May. Am so so scared as I miscaried at 6 weeks last time but this doctor has managed to make me pregnant both times. He knows what he is doing and if anyone wants details and support please let me know. You would be so surprised how many people I see in the clinic from abroad all over. I think if you can and your health allows it is to comit into another cycle while your body is already high on the medication from this round as well. I've heard its meant to be better not to leave a big gap between treatments.

StaceyWS88 · 02/05/2023 13:35

I’ve been emotional all morning. Somehow got it in my head that it’s not going to work again so I’m just unreasonably sad and stressed!

CR7 · 02/05/2023 13:52

@StaceyWS88 all the emotions are natural. We are all chock full of drugs. Just lean into it. Watch some sh1t on tv. Make yourself something delicious for lunch xx