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IVF August/September cycle buddies

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foodiefil · 01/06/2021 17:46

Starting this thread early!

We've just booked for our second round to start August 2nd with egg collection September 8th.

I was on the Jan/Feb thread earlier this year.

Come join me :)

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MollyVanDer · 06/09/2021 12:57

Brilliant @Gensola !

MollyVanDer · 06/09/2021 12:58

@KatRee same - testing Weds and have the day off work. I just say lots said the 2WW was hard, I didn't realise just how hard. Sending you positivity

Hansoo · 06/09/2021 13:12

Well done @gensola

ngy21 · 06/09/2021 13:16

@Gensola such great news! Now to keep busy until the 17th Grin

2mumsandason · 06/09/2021 13:35

Brilliant new @Gensola!! Got everything crossed for you!

99pctpractice · 06/09/2021 13:42

@gensola that’s amazing!! You must be v pleased - fingers crossed for the next couple of weeks!!

@MollyVanDer so glad the spotting stopped and with any luck it was the same cause as @SerendipitySunshine so may be a good omen!!

@hansoo good luck with early testing, but I would be wary of some of the ones from Amazon because I think they can be a bit rubbish (some of the cheap ovulation sticks definitely are)….I was recommended first response for early testing when I was hoping for my pre-ivf unicorn bfp Hmm.

Good luck for egg collection today, @smarty14 and for transfer tomorrow @beachbum85!

My test day is Saturday! Not sure why it’s so much later than @hansoo and @katree as we had ET on the same day but I don’t think I’ll test earlier as I’d rather test on a Saturday and not have to worry about trying to focus on work after a negative result….

99pctpractice · 06/09/2021 14:13

I was just wondering what others have been told about having sex post-egg transfer? Our clinic said it was fine with a condom and we’re on holiday so we have been but I was then reading a list of dos and donts post-ET and it said no sex for 2 weeks!! Has anyone else heard this?

beachbum85 · 06/09/2021 14:34

What a great set of embryos @Gensola - that must have been such a relief!! Congratulations on being PUPO :) and very very best of luck xx

@99pctpractice I also saw the no-sex rule as an orgasm might disrupt implanatation but my clinic didn't mention anything like that! Doesn't make much sense to me as if you're trying normally then you wouldn't necessarily stop the day after ovulation, but who knows?!

@Hansoo good luck with testing tomorrow!

@KatRee @MollyVanDer I had taken the day off last time and will definitely do the same this time if it's a weekday test - it makes things so much easier to have the day to yourself. Although fingers crossed that it'll be the best news :)
Lots of love and strength to all those waiting!

And fingers crossed for everyone this week xx

Thanks so much @Bluebonnet3 @ngy21 @99pctpractice :)

Goldilocks2528 · 06/09/2021 14:41

Hi @99pctpractice I asked after transfer and was told nobody had asked that question before! I can't believe that. The nurse went to ask a doctor, and came back and said I could any time we wanted as long as I felt ok. I felt fine, but we were sure that wasn't right so waited about a week.

Goldilocks2528 · 06/09/2021 14:42

Well done @Gensola, that's fab!

Good luck today @smarty14

Ooh @beachbum85, transfer tomorrow. How exciting! I hope it goes well. I am sure it will.

smarty14 · 06/09/2021 15:35

Egg collection done and wow I was not expecting how uncomfortable I would be afterwards!
We got 17 eggs though! Smile

beachbum85 · 06/09/2021 16:19

@smarty14 that's excellent, well done! take it easy now, your body has been really busy... I hope you feel better very soon xx

@Goldilocks2528 thank you, I really hope so!
How has the start to your stims been? I hope it's all gone smoothly xx

ngy21 · 06/09/2021 17:37

@smarty14 amazing number! fingers crossed for your phone call tomorrow that you will have a great fertilization rate. How are you feeling now? Did you take a couple days off for resting?

Gensola · 06/09/2021 17:55

Thanks all! My clinic said sex was absolutely fine, I am nervous about it as I know other clinics say not to. I asked and they said it’s to do with sperm getting in there rather than anything else so with a condom is advised.

smarty14 · 06/09/2021 20:21

@ngy21
Feeling for sore and tender!
I work in a school and had intended to feel quite so bad but have already said I probably won't be in tomorrow.

I hope everyone is doing ok. 😊

KatRee · 06/09/2021 20:36

Thanks @MollyVanDer - I need that positivity. Not much longer now... hope you are keeping strong and hanging on

@99pctpractice - yes, that's strange it's a bit later. Maybe it depends on the trigger and how soon they expect it to be out of your body to get a reliable result? I know different protocols involve different kinds of trigger and different doses. I think I'd wait until sat too if I were you. I'm already finding it hard to focus on work

I was told no 'intercourse' for 12 days after ET, but no idea why. I hear as with most things different clinics say different things. I'm sure I read somewhere that there was a study on it that suggested semen was actually good for the embryo weirdly enough.

@smarty14 - congratulations on that fantastic number of eggs. Hope you manage to take it easy for a few days now

Goldilocks2528 · 07/09/2021 09:11

That's great news @smarty14!

Hope transfer goes well today @beachbum85 xx Stims going ok, 4 days in. Scan on Monday so fingers crossed.

ngy21 · 07/09/2021 09:37

@smarty14 fingers crossed for your results today, hope you're feeling better!

@beachbum85 good luck on your ET!

Hope everyone is doing well today, and fingers crossed for those who are testing this week will get their positives :)

beachbum85 · 07/09/2021 13:48

Thanks @ngy21 and @Goldilocks2528!

ET went really smoothly and we have a 4BB on board! I'm so relieved and feeling calm and positive :) we have 4 early blasts that they'll monitor until tomorrow to see if any will make it to freeze but, even if not, this is better than I expected!

@smarty14 I hope you're feeling better and you were happy with your fertilisation news xx

Lots of love and positive thoughts to all!

Gensola · 07/09/2021 13:52

@beachbum85 congratulations on your ET! Are you resting up today or feeling more active? I feel guilty for lying about not doing much but I feel quite sick and low energy.

beachbum85 · 07/09/2021 14:05

Thank you @Gensola! I'm on my way home from acupuncture and will just be responding to some emails this afternoon. I'm invited to a friend for dinner, but it's close by and will be pretty chilled. I'm sorry you're not feeling very well, but try not to feel guilty - just do (or don't do) whatever makes you feel best. Hopefully it's implantation taking up all your energy Wink xx

foodiefil · 07/09/2021 14:16

Hi everyone, have been reading as many updates as possible. Good to see some ETs, some frosties and lots of eggs!

Had my egg retrieval yesterday and ended up back in hospital for the night with pain. Had nothing like this the first time. Had severe abdominal pain, trouble breathing, not passing much urine. All my bloods have come back fine this morning and I’m home now.

Got 10 eggs and 8 have fertilised. Next update is Thursday. Last round we got 11 and 6 fertilised.

Good luck everyone. Love and strength xxx

OP posts:
Hansoo · 07/09/2021 14:23

Well done guys. Sounds like you have done an amazing job with all the ECs and ETs

@KatRee good luck for tomorrow.

2mumlife · 07/09/2021 15:21

@beachbum85 Just popping by to say congrats on ET. Hope you have a smooth wait until test day Flowers

beachbum85 · 07/09/2021 16:37

Thank you so much @2mumlife (especially for popping back in!) and @Hansoo!

@foodiefil that's a great number of eggs and feritlisation rate but that pain sounds horrendous - I'm so sorry it was so bad for you this time round :( great to hear you're back home and I hope you're recovering well. Everything crossed for positive updates over the next few days xx

@Hansoo @MollyVanDer @KatRee well done for making it to test day and very, very best of luck with your tests tomorrow. I'll be thinking of all of you xx