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IVF August/September cycle buddies

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foodiefil · 01/06/2021 17:46

Starting this thread early!

We've just booked for our second round to start August 2nd with egg collection September 8th.

I was on the Jan/Feb thread earlier this year.

Come join me :)

OP posts:
TanBr · 27/08/2021 19:22

Thanks KatRee, nothing helps, I do believe I have my new obsession. I’m doing it alone, after the last time I kept it secret right to transfer day. I cheated and tested this morning but I’m scared it’s not true and scared it is wahhhhhhh

TanBr · 27/08/2021 19:24

It’s a tense wait at each stage as it’s literally all out of your hands there isn’t much you can do except follow the advice. Crazy times.

Nerdalert · 27/08/2021 19:25

Good evening everyone,

Trying to catch up on all the activity. Welcome to all the new people, this group is amazing at keeping you sane and positive!

So my 3rd stims scan today showed a good increase in size and if I work out how to add a pic I'll show you my graph since Monday! EC is booked for Tuesday! Trigger tomorrow evening, had to set an alarm as its due at nearly midnight 😴.

@beachbum85 my work have been really good about the IVF and the isolation period. I have informed them it'll be a few extra days with my EC being delayed, they're completely fine with it.

@itsmschanandlerbong @Bluebonnet3 @Hansoo @KatRee how are you all getting on? Transfers Sunday /Monday? I'm so excited for you all! Sending extra love and positivity your way!

@Gensola take it from me the extra few days waiting and extra meds, however frustrating, will do the follicles a world of good! I actually gasped today when I saw the size of them on the scan.

Like most of you my hubby is pretty good with driving, jabs, and just being there doing stuff round the house when I'm all tired out. But unfortunately has little to do with the process and hasn't really got involved apart from nodding when I talk about it 🤣

Nerdalert · 27/08/2021 19:29

My graph! I was amazed 😊

IVF August/September cycle buddies
Nerdalert · 27/08/2021 19:50

EC is booked for Monday not Tuesday 🤦🏽‍♀️

99pctpractice · 28/08/2021 08:55

good luck for day 3 (and 2) updates today!! @Hansoo @KatRee @Bluebonnet3 all fingers crossed those little embryos are dividing and multiplying nicely...! @itsmschanandlerbong hope your day 3 update yesterday was positive as well.

@Nerdalert looks like a great progression! does that mean you're triggering tonight? good luck!!

Hansoo · 28/08/2021 09:08

Update day 3. All embroyos progressing. 1 is looking slower in development

Embryo 1 has 12 cells
Embryo 2 has 8 cells
Embryo 3 has 9 cells
Embryo 4 has 5 cells

Number of cells isn't necessarily signifying the strongest as the cells have not been tested yet.

KatRee · 28/08/2021 10:55

Thank you @99pctpractice @Nerdalert

I'm feeling a little bit down after my call from the clinic. The embryos are still hanging on, but their quality has declined since yesterday. They still advised me to book 5 day transfer for Monday, but it's possible that we won't have any to transfer. I know this has always been a possibility, but up until yesterday they thought it was a pretty small possibility and now it's more likely

@Hansoo - pleased to see that yours are progressing 🤞for successful transfers for both of us on Monday

@TanBr - I hate the waiting, it's so hard to think about anything else. When is your official test day?

@Nerdalert - Great to see your folliclesare making good progress and your EC is now in sight!

@itsmschanandlerbong I hope you've had some positive updates on your embryos?

Gensola · 28/08/2021 11:08

@KatRee sorry to hear this - have been through this before myself and know how disappointing and upsetting it is, keeping everything crossed that they perk up for you Flowers
I am in a lot of discomfort now, bloated and boobs are killing me. Really hope the scan on Monday is good and they let me trigger that night.

beachbum85 · 28/08/2021 11:20

Good morning everyone... finally managing to catch up on everything. Lots going on!

@KatRee I'm sorry to hear it's wasn't good news from the clinic today and can totally understand your disappointment :( Sending you a big hug and positive thoughts... If I remember correctly, you had quite a few embryos so hopefully at least 1 will hang on till Monday. You really only need the one... I'm keeping everything crossed for you xx
I hope you manage to enjoy your non-isolating weekend despite this update xx

@Hansoo looking great! Will you get another update tomorrow or will you go directly for transfer on Monday? Good luck!

@Bluebonnet3 I'm sorry about the drop-off but very glad to hear you have more fertilised than last time and I hope they're all going strong! have you heard back about your transfer date?
I was catsitting for friends last weekend and loved it :) we're doing some DIY today and going to visit some friends out of town tomorrow so that should keep me busy before Monday's scan! Enjoy it with your furry friend xx

@itsmschanandlerbong and @99pctpractice how are you doing? have you had any updates?

@Lifa how are you feeling about Tuesday?

@Gensola that's really great - amazing numbers and fingers crossed for Monday! Sorry about the discomfort though... I also have to continue stimming over the weekend and rescan on Monday - there were 8 follicles yd between 10-15mm - and I'm super bloated too.

@Nerdalert that's great progress and a really good number of follicles! Best of luck with your trigger tonight and for Monday! I'm glad your work has been understanding and flexible so the date change wasn't stressful. I need to move my leave too, but my manage is really great with it all, thankfully :)

@TanBr welcome and best of luck! Waiting is so, so hard but you're almost there!

@Goldilocks2528 it could be that they think your response will be similar with a higher dose - that's definitely what happened in my case, same result (or actually 1 follicle less) as last time.

@foodiefil glad to hear you've started, but yes the bloating is a real pain! Hope it hasn't gotten too bad! When will your first scan be?

@Coops0406 hi again! Oct looks like ages away but really it's just over a month... I hope your period starts soon so you can start and hopefully then the time will fly for you xx

Hansoo · 28/08/2021 12:09

@katree I'm sorry to hear your news. Hopefully one makes it through.

In terms of transfer. It will be defo Monday as that's day 5. They don't work Sundays. I'm going to ring after 2 to get my joining instructions.

99pctpractice · 28/08/2021 12:51

Sounds like they’re doing well, @hansoo !!

Apparently I have one front runner and three with a bit of catching up to do. So I am officially booked in for Monday transfer and crossing fingers to have something to freeze.

99pctpractice · 28/08/2021 12:55

@katree so sorry to hear that the news wasn’t more positive, but great that you’re still booked in for a transfer on Monday. A lot can happen between now and then! All fingers crossed that our embryos make it across the line.

TanBr · 28/08/2021 12:58

Thanks Ladies, it ain’t over until it’s over KatRee. Keep the faith. My fingers are crossed for all of us.
I am literally at the stage where I hate people who conceive first time. I know it’s horrible, I’m sssooo jealous of them I want to be be happy for them. Then I hate myself for it.
Official test date is 31 Aug, though I cheated and did 2 this morning 😂.

KatRee · 28/08/2021 13:22

Thank you for your kind words @Gensola @beachbum85 @Hansoo @99pctpractice @TanBr. It really is a rollercoaster! They tell me they don't do day 4 updates, so just have to sit tight now and hope there is a survivor waiting for me on Monday

@Gensola I'm sorry you 're getting all those side effects off the meds- hope you can be done with them soon!

@TanBr I just get more and more amazed at how easy it is for some people. Are your tests coming back positive? Am I right in thinking you had a FET, so there is no HCG in your system from the trigger?

TanBr · 28/08/2021 13:30

I have to use donor eggs, as I have a low reserve. Yes all the way I want them, I didn’t want to come right out and say it and be insensitive to everyone else’s journey. I’m still like wowzer but it’s all nothing until the scan.
I was on buserelin which basically puts you into fake menopause. Wow that was horrific - migraines, sick, major bloating, sweats. I constantly feel like I need to burp now!

TanBr · 28/08/2021 13:33

When the 5 eggs were fertilised, then I heard nothing until day of transfer and I had 1. This one little dot cost me 16k and worth it if it works. If it’s unsuccessful I will get 6k back. As long as I continue to save just in case I can just afford to try again.

itsmschanandlerbong · 28/08/2021 14:19

@Bluebonnet3 best of luck for transfer tomorrow!

@TanBr keeping everything crossed for you for test day 🤞🤞

@Nerdalert best of luck for Tuesday!

@Hansoo that's great news! Hopefully the other will catch up.

@KatRee really sorry to hear this, I've been there, I know how gut wrenching this all is.

@beachbum85 best of luck for your scan on Monday!

@99pctpractice good luck for your transfer on Monday!

I got my update. The embryologist said that on day 3 they are scored out of 8 , 8 being the best. Of the 3 embryos we have:
12 cell, score 6
8 cell, score 5
7 cell, score 7
She said the 12 cell and 7 cell are doing well and hopefully the 8 cell will catch up.
Just an anxious wait now until transfer tomorrow!

TanBr · 28/08/2021 14:23

@99pctpractice fingers are crossed for you lovely

smarty14 · 28/08/2021 16:43

Hi all,

Hoping I can jump on this post. I am on day 8 of injections. I have another scan booked for Monday and praying my follicles have grown. My last scan was on Thursday and doctor said there was alot of follicles they were just small.
Fingers crossed!
I didn’t prepare myself fully for what a rollercoaster this is! 😩

TanBr · 28/08/2021 18:53

Hi Smarty14,
I don’t think you can every be ready for this journey. Good luck on your journey

Bluebonnet3 · 28/08/2021 18:58

My clinic says I'm doing day 3 transfer tomorrow morning. Of 6 fertilised, there are 4 remaining today. Hoping to have 2 to transfer and 1-2 to freeze, if they make it to day 5 (actually, i think my clinic may wait until day 6).

A little disheartened, as i was hoping to wait until day 5 and have a choice of blasts, but today things are still moving forward.

@itsmschanandlerbong good luck for your transfer tomorrow!

TanBr · 28/08/2021 19:19

BlueBonnet, they like to pop them in as it’s the best environment. I asked that question my first time round. Good Luck

Nerdalert · 28/08/2021 19:30

@99pctpractice yes I am triggering tonight! Excited to not feel bloated and crampy anymore! I have a hot water bottle on my tummy more often than not at the moment.

@Hansoo @KatRee @Bluebonnet3 @itsmschanandlerbong @99pctpractice got everything crossed for your little magical embryos and transfer.

@Gensola I am definitely with you, this is the worst I've felt throughout the whole process. So glad I'm not working!

@Beachbum85 good luck for your scan Monday

Apologies if I've missed anyone in triggers, scans and transfers. So much going on!

@TanBr 🤞🏼 for official test day

Gensola · 29/08/2021 08:17

Woke up with cramps and bloating at 6am and couldn’t get back to sleep. Scan is at 8am tomorrow, hopefully they will say I can trigger that eve with transfer on Weds!
I am having to bring menopur to a BBQ today. The things we do Grin