@itonlytakesone, I do indeed have twins now, (boy and a girl), they’re 5 months/22 weeks today. My eggs were pretty good quality, I just didn’t have many - one of my ovaries wasn’t responding very well/didn’t respond at all. I was absolutely terrified at that point, because I’d been reading the internet and had seen a billion posts saying ‘oooh, I got 872 eggs out’ (slight exaggeration, but that’s what it felt like at the time!), but as your username says, it only takes one!
I got 6 eggs out in the end, 2 didn’t make it in the first 24 hours (dr said if it was in the first 24 hours, poss 48 hours it’s the egg that was the issue, 48 hours poss 72 hours it’s the sperm) and I was on absolute tenterhooks waiting to see if the other 4 would make it, which they did. Then came the dreaded 2 week wait!
I had a massive plan of what I was going to do if neither of the embys had stuck, which I actually got quite excited about, which helped me prepare for the worst because I had a plan. I like plans!
Needing ivf in itself was horrible, but when I found out about the low ovarian reserve I was truly devastated. Mine had declined quite rapidly, we had started the testing for ivf late in 2015, and started it again in 2017, and it never occurred to me that it could happen. Knocked me for six if I’m honest!
It can have a happy ending, and I really do wish you all the best with your ivf journey, and I’ll be keeping everything crossed for you getting your results, and your BFP! I can’t remember masses of the process, but if you have any questions/want to rant at someone who gets it, send me a message! ✨