Ah funkymonk you've had such a tough time of it, I really really hope this is the one for you. I have my fingers and toes tightly crossed for you
Since coming off the pill for n my natural cycles I ovulated but didn't really have a period at all. A bit of brown/black spotting and that was it.
Complete absence of any cervical mucus, the clearblue dual hormone OPK jumping straight from low to peak and scanty periods suggested some kind of oestrogen issue and therefore I suspected thin lining
In my clomid cycle the lining didn't get above 4.6mm but we thought that might have been the Clomid
During my first IVF cycle my lining got to 7.2mm before trigger but then thinned to 6.4mm at EC. We had to freeze all due to other issues in any case.
In the natural cycle immediately after, I decided to throw every natural trick in the book to see what my lining would do in a natural cycle. Vitamin E, l-arginine, aspirin, vaginal viagra, acupuncture, heat packs, red raspberry leaf tea, all that jazz. Went to get a scan and was about to ovulate but lining was 4.2mm and not triple line. Dr checked my uterine blood flow and it was fantastic. So not surprising none of those tricks had worked because my problem wasn't blood flow. He said the issue was that the oestrogen receptors in my endometrium (antennae, he called them) were sleepy, probably from long term use of the pill, and he hoped that the cumulative effect of oestrogen expose would wake them up
We decided to do another fresh cycle because we only had a very few eggs and with my low AMH we wanted to bank embryos while we could. That was in Jan. My lining was an OK 7mm before trigger but thinned to 5.5mm at EC
I'd started progynova the day of trigger and came in for a lining scan on day 4, when we would decide if we would transfer, or freeze all. My lining had thickened up to 8.5mm so we decided to transfer. However it was already compacting under the influence of progesterone so my hunch is the quality wasn't great. But amazingly, the embryo implanted, Dr was thrilled that the endometrium was appropriately thickened at the 7w scan, but sadly at the 10w scan we discovered I'd had a MMC. Tissue testing showed the baby was chromosomally normal 
We think that although the lining thickened up, the top soil was OK but the bottom soil was crap. The only bleed I'd had was after my first IVF cycle in Oct. Thereafter I ovulated, started down regging for an attempt at doing LP for IVF #2 (with the intention that we could control my lining better on long protocol), which got cancelled because I ovulated whilst on buserelin and failed for down reg, went on the pill for a month. But when I came off the pill to try another crack at IVF #2, I didn't have a withdrawal bleed. Just a bit of black spotting.
So we think whatever lining had built up between October and January just never got a proper clear out. So when the lining thickened up, it was probably on crap foundations. Given all the new research from Coventry about the importance of menstruation to regeneration of the lining, as a key factor in recurrent miscarriage, it makes sense
This cycle, IVF #3, incredibly, my lining grew to 11.1mm all by itself!!! I couldn't believe it. So the 2 months of oestrogen exposure while I was pregnant did indeed seem to have helped to wake up my lining and make it more responsive.
Dr said we won't put anything back until he's confident in the quality of the endometrium. He wants me to menstruate properly to have a decent clear out, as he saw there was still some old blood from the miscarriage when he did a hysteroscopy - and I never had a bleed post ERPC.
So I'm nervously waiting for a period, and hoping for Niagara Falls. 11mm has go somewhere, surely??!! Due today but so far just black gunge (sorry TMI) which is how all my 'periods' have started, but never went any further. Panicking my period will go on strike and the lining won't shed (yes, the IVF crazy has set in)
Trying to encourage a bleed with a heat pack strapped to my belly, raspberry leaf tea, wearing white knickers to invoke the law of sod, and this evening will deploy a hot bath and an orgasm to try and get things moving
Ironic for TTC to be absolutely desperate for a period to turn up!
Gosh that was an epic ramble. Sorry for hijacking your thread Glummy with lining chat!