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Please read this and tell me whether facism is now in vogue...

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ToughDaddy · 13/06/2009 09:57

here it is.....I guess that is what you get for sneaking a peek at the Daily Mail.

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knockedgymnast · 13/06/2009 11:11

'Doctors said there's 'no risk' of having a black baby'

Unbelievable!!

I can understand them being upset, disappointed, embarrassed, whatever but surely there are different ways to deal with this. Are they ashamed because the whole world now nows that daddy is a jaffa or is it because the child isn't the same colour as them.

My very white parents adopted me from 4 months old, back in the 70's when I was the only black kid in the whole school. They dealt with it, I dealt with it why can't these freaks deal with it?

Poor, poor child. Because of them, this child will grow up with an inferiority complex, have low ethnic-esteem and probably wish at times, he wasn't born.

Yes, when I was younger, I'm sure people stared and I'm sure people made comments (although I can't remember and it wouldn't have been something that my parents would have told me)

Yes, people will stare, yes people will comment but I'm sure it's not in the negative way that his 'parents' describe.

By all means sue the hospital, but if you're gonna go down that road, give that poor child up for adoption......

dollius · 13/06/2009 11:21

This is such typical DM drivel.

I know lots of people in Belfast - they treat each other's children as their own - and none of the people I know would bat an eyelid at one of their friends having a mixed-race child.

It is very white dominated, but they do travel, watch films, read the news. They don't think black people are strange fgs.

I don't believe for a minute that lots of people are accosting this woman in the street and demanding to know if she has had an affair. I suspect that is paranoia of her own making.

To suggest, as this piece does, that people in Northern Ireland are red-kneck types pointing and staring at black people is absurd stereotyping of the highest degree.

God I hate the Daily Mail.

And these parents are ridiculous. "How will my son feel when he grows up and finds out he was conceived with the wrong sperm???"

Well, I think he will be glad it happened, because otherwise he WOULD NOT EXIST.

Sorry for mad, ranty caps lock.

HelloBeastie · 13/06/2009 11:26

And isn't changing their names a bit pointless? Surely the circumstances are specific enough that anyone who knows them will recognise them from the story...

StewieGriffinsMom · 13/06/2009 11:30

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knockedgymnast · 13/06/2009 11:41

Well said Dollius I too, think it's paranoia of her own making.

They could always use some of my foundation then they'd all be the same colour and no one would 'stare' hehe

HelloBeastie · 13/06/2009 11:43

"...he's suffered racial taunts in school, with other pupils asking: 'Where's your father from?' He's been called a "n*r" and a "P*i"."

Yeah, she's probably just paranoid.

ToughDaddy · 13/06/2009 11:54

Dollius and Stewie- couldn't agree more. I only went on to the Daily Snail website to see what was up with Brad and Angie - so I guess stumbling on to that article is my punishment

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knockedgymnast · 13/06/2009 11:55

Hellobeastie I don't doubt that he was called those names at school, as I was on occasion and worse - but to say that she can't go out because people stare

That to me is paranoia. So what if people do stare, leave them to it. It seems sad that they seem so ashamed of their childrens' heritage and the way the parents have handled it, will only make things worse.

She is ashamed of that boy and his colour

The fact that any money they recieve from taking the hospital to court will go into a trust for the children to soften the blow says it all really.

ToughDaddy · 13/06/2009 12:00

People stare at inter-racial couples, still today. So I guess thet should all hide at home.

I think social service in NI should visit this family

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StewieGriffinsMom · 13/06/2009 12:04

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ToughDaddy · 13/06/2009 12:09

The parents can't be as ignorant as the article makes them out. They must just be mercenary and trying to exploit this to make a packet. Surely?

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ToughDaddy · 13/06/2009 12:18

I am ranting about the DM article as earlier I encountered this one

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ToughDaddy · 13/06/2009 12:28

Before I dash off, in relation to the above: Sure there are black and mixed race drug dealers but I think it is a stereotype and the website above should know better than to propogate this steroe type.

Besides the article is about trainee lawyer who is a drug user and I am not aware that this is a particular problem amongst mixed race or black male lawyers.

bye for now

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knockedgymnast · 13/06/2009 12:43

By toughDaddy 'Before I dash off, in relation to the above: Sure there are black and mixed race drug dealers but I think it is a stereotype and the website above should know better than to propogate this steroe type'

Oh ToughDaddy, I'm sure you're just trying to wind us all up now I saw no intent or reference to anyone in that pic, apart from what the t-shirt said.

Nice try TD

monkeytrousers · 13/06/2009 12:55

Just got half way though - can't see any facism. Just people who need help in accepting they are 'different' in their particular culture.

monkeytrousers · 13/06/2009 12:57

And I think none of us have any idea how they feel.

Ithink it best to assume they are normal people in extraordinary circumstances and leave it at that

harleyd · 13/06/2009 16:32

'i hate to say it but n. ireland is a strange place'

'yes yes we are all gorgeous warm people river dancing and riding donkey - except when we are out beating innocent fathers to death in the street etc.'

'There are not many countries in the world where a gang of men would go into another area specifically looking to pull anyone off the street and beat them (recently) or shoot them (10 years ago).'

what utter bullshit
to blanket stereotype a whole fucking country based on a small...yes small...minority of thugs and terrorists

im sorry this has fuck all to do with the article in the paper, but im seriously angry
i dont think i have ever read anything on mn that has maddened me to this point
im leaving the thread..i just wanted to say that

Tn0g · 13/06/2009 16:36
Grin
harleyd · 13/06/2009 16:37

i fucking knew you would be grinning tnog

Tn0g · 13/06/2009 16:39

I'm grinning ut I'm right behind you Harold.

Not literally loike, but you know what I mean.

harleyd · 13/06/2009 16:40

oh ikwym ...bloody hell...steam coming out my ears!
anyhows, i must off to work...laters

knockedgymnast · 13/06/2009 16:40

HarleyD are you ok?

Tn0g · 13/06/2009 16:41

what happened to the, b?

Feckin crumbs.

Tn0g · 13/06/2009 16:41

H...seriously now, I understand

harleyd · 13/06/2009 16:42

yeah knockedgymnast...furious, but ok