Thanks everyone. I can't believe this is happening.
We don't have savings. How on earth will we manage? How long will the lenders give you if you can't pay the mortgage? Apart from the really important stuff (cost of living), ds's school trip is to be paid this month - what do we tell him if the doors are locked in the morning? Oh God.......[no emoticon for this one]
This is very real - I am very scared, yet there nothig whatsoever we can do..........