Man found dead. 2 men arrested

[NotABanana]

So so sad.

I hope they find out what happened and that some good will come out of this terrible tragedy with regards to the position and (lack of?) support for carers in this country

her partner wasnt the oldest two childrens dad

And why had neither of them been seen by neighbours for approx. two weeks?

sorry .. I made some assumptions there that are possibly unfounded

and yes crh have tried everything, havent got her mobile though but I cant do it today anyway as dd has been 'excluded' from school

twiglett there is another thread in sn aswell which i posted yesterday or day before where I have made assumptions also its quite difficult not to though

What.. WHAT???! Excluded!!!! (Can you email me? Just briefly..?)

this whole case is all very odd. esp as the two men have been arrested so soon after James was found .

I think it's hard not to make assumptions though.

Oh God. Jame's body has had to be indentified via dental records. They (SKY news admittedly, equiv of a tabloid I guess!)are saying this is probably because it was "badly decomposed" (wtf?!).

The two arrested are "a man and a youth".

DH has a theory. Can't possibly state what it is obviously.

oh how AWFUL

So why post, CRH?

Because I want the attention Banana

No. Because I think it's a fairly obvious theory that others are no doubt thinking, but to speculate on a public forum is considered wrong.

but true CRH. God what a horrible horrible mess.

I still don't see the point of bringing it up and plenty of theories about others have been discussed on here when it has been distasteful.

We will agree to disagree as it is such a sad story it really isn't worth arguing about.

Sorry if mention of a theory offends you Banana but you can't really get away with discussing theories about these types of cases on here anymore. Remember the Madeleine threads.

James's head teacher just made a statement remembering him as "a happy young man who loved the company of others".

It didn't offend me. I just didn't see why you posted that your DH had a theory and then said you couldn't post it.

It is just too awful to contemplate what that poor man went through.

Righto.

I think that, considering arrests were made so soon after James was discovered, it's only too easy to guess what might have happened.

this is the latest from the bbc

So he was found in the garden . Also notice that the comments from her partner talking about her are no longer shown. make of that what you will...

Poor poor man.

Sky website have confirmed that the partner has been arrested on suspicion of murder, and the the body had been buried.

Also saw this on the sky website and it had me sobbing my heart out. some of us just don't know how lucky we are.

Will walk away form this thread now, thanking my lucky stars.

Sh*t

Just read it, Squiffy. Amazing.