How refreshing to find this thread.
Demonstrable evidence that there are mothers amongst us (and even on a site like this) who can have a bit of perspective on the subject of "Bringing Up Baby".
It's a bloody television programme ffs!
No children have been abused. They're all still alive and kicking, are quite happy and so are their parents so why the hell should everyone here be up on their high horses about it?
My advice; get over it; get a life and get on with it or, alternatively, find something worthwhile to exercise yourselves over.