MUMSNET LIGHT A CANDLE FOR MADELEINE MCCANN HERE

[Sparkler1]

I've started a group on Light a Candle if anyone wishes to join in.

Madeleine McCann

Group Name - MNET

Sparkler1 xx

I don't think that's possible pedro

i knowhaving dd same age sends chills down my spine, i suffered an awful upbringing and am very protective of dd already, i juts cant understand how people can hurt children

it isnt possibly, i know you meant well, but in my crazy head i keep thinking that if i keep hoping and praying for her, something good will happen.my thoughts have no beneifit to Maddie or her family, but i cant rest.

no REALLY
you need to STOP OBSESSING
its sad but it isnt YOURproblem

pedro, thanks for the concern, but I am not your problem either.

sorry pedro - but I can't see it like that.

It's more than sad and I don't just see 'it' as someone else's problem.

I can't.

Am i right in thinking pedro is cod?

ye sbut when it gets to the point its impacting on your normal and totally resonabel behaviour and loggin on all day to chekc then its outta controal imho

no I am not cod

PinkChick - I feel excatctly the same as you and didn't want to leave my DD at nursery this morning either. It is affecting you because you are a compassionate human being.

no because you haev tgot it totally out of control
are you in Protugal?
NO
are oyu related?
no
is there a risk someone will tkae your kid at pre school?
NO

i think this thread was started for a totally different reason, like a book of good wishes.imho i don't think it should be used for anything else. There are many more threads to do that on. Please leave it for candles and quiet reflection

pedro, im not loggin on all day, i am not working this morning, i have radio feed on here and was also checking/starting threads on childcare listings, while cleaning my house, i am stood up typing.
i do check the news each morning and eachn night..if i was getting too involved i would be in portugal helping search.im a concerned member of the public a mum, who can imagine how they must feel.maybe things affect me differently, but i cant help or apologise for how i feel

DS2 has lit a candle X

pedro leave it, i didnt see your last post, i wont respond to you, this is a thread for well wishes not for yet another argument.

pedro. I find your way of thinking very odd.

If we all felt like that what kind of society would we live in?

I keep looking at my 3 year old dd sleeping and waking in the night thinking about Madeleine. I can't help it and I do not want anyone to tell me I am wrong in doing so.

We all deal with things in different ways.

I am not harming anyone with my caring, am I?

Why does it bother you so much?

i am merely suggesting you channel your " grief£" of someone oyu have never met into somthign more constructive
wwe wil haev to disagree

yes, we will

it bothers me because I fear it is not healthy

obsesisve /depressive imfd

EXCUSE ME, can the ill educated psychiatrists end my session now! this is not the time the palce nor does anyone have the right to question my state of mind because i care

yeah right.

Well I'm not obsessive and I'm certainly not depressed - I just have a heart.
Nice idea Sparkler x