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Just so sad

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WildThongIWannaKnowForSure · 15/04/2013 20:27

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-suffolk-22157968

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WildThongIWannaKnowForSure · 15/04/2013 20:28

Sorry here

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chocolatespiders · 15/04/2013 20:49
Sad
BCBG · 15/04/2013 20:51

I can't get over the ages - she must have spent most of four years pregnant Sad

YourHandInMyHand · 15/04/2013 20:53

Does anyone else see news stories like this and wonder about PND or abuse in the relationship? Before I had DS I would have thought it was sad but now I question it based on my own experiences.

She had a 3, 2, and 1 year old and was heavily pregnant.

Sad
AuntieStella · 15/04/2013 20:55

I've seen that: dreadful story?

And I note the police have said it's the early stages of a wide investigation, but that there was no threat to the community. It sounds as if they really don't know what has happened, and I hope the investigation team gets to the bottom of it swiftly. It must be a very difficult case to be working on Sad

Wannabestepfordwife · 15/04/2013 21:34

I bawled my eyes out those poor children and poor woman she must have been desperately depressed.

I can't imagine what the father must be going through

duchesse · 15/04/2013 21:37

Horrendous. There must have been no-one and no services for her to turn to, and the prospect of 4 children under 4 was too much for her. Poor woman and children and poor poor family.

Geordieminx · 15/04/2013 21:38

So desperately sad.

I still don't understand thugh, why when a father kills his kids he is seen as evil, when its a mother everyone presumes she must have PND?

queenofthepirates · 15/04/2013 21:43

I just hope they went quietly, I cannot imagine what could have made this happen but my heart breaks for her and her family.

Figgygal · 15/04/2013 21:44

The prospect of 4 under 4 is very overwhelming!!

Sad for all involved

AuntieStella · 15/04/2013 21:45

And, even more sadly, it's the second incident of mother and children found dead this week: BBC article on Ruislip deaths on 13th

LynetteScavo · 15/04/2013 21:46

You don't need PND to be overwhelmed by 3 small DC and being heavily pregnant!

Very sad.

HeyYoniYoni · 15/04/2013 21:51

geordieminx because pnd is an illness that (mostly) men don't suffer from. It's rare that they would have that as a reason, whereas when a woman does, usually it is

2old2beamum · 15/04/2013 21:52

Poor poor girl I just hope it wasn't benefit related.
May they all rest in peace.
I am totally gutted this can happen

Alibabaandthe40nappies · 15/04/2013 21:57

Is there more info on the full website, because from what is written in the report I can see on my phone there is nothing to confirm it was her who killed them?

IYoniWantToBeWithYou · 15/04/2013 21:58

I find it impossible to sympathise with anyone that can kill a child, let alone three. My thoughts and sympathies are firmly with the children, the father and the extended family. So very sad Sad

worley · 15/04/2013 22:07

they're not confirming yet it was her that killed them. her ex dp had left her a while ago for someone else and she had been threatening suicide on FB and posting she would be taking her babies with her
:( (as stated in the daily mail)
I's all very sad.

worley · 15/04/2013 22:13

sorry daily mail

timtam23 · 15/04/2013 22:16

Dreadfully sad for everyone concerned, it stopped me in my tracks today when I heard this. Poor babies Sad

Ilovemydogandmydoglovesme · 15/04/2013 22:25

This is just up the road from me. It's all over the local news. I too bawled when I read it. Those poor little children. I went straight upstairs to look at my dc's asleep in their beds. How disturbed would you have to be do this to your own children? So awful. Feel desperately sorry for all of them. Sad

IYoniWentInForAPintOfMilk · 16/04/2013 05:41

I live a few minutes from where this happened, this is devastating news. I cannot imagine what the family are going through.
I think the way the mail have reported this is disgusting, in one sentence saying they can't speculate and in the next saying she did it, its just horrible.
This is so sad, I cannot stop thinking about it. My heart breaks for them all.
RIP those little angels.

Tanith · 16/04/2013 07:35

There is such a thing as pre-natal depression.
A friend of mine had it many years ago: she killed herself when she was 7 months pregnant.

YourHandInMyHand · 16/04/2013 07:50

Tanith. Sad

I don't automatically assume anything with stories like this, it's so sad. I hope the police investigate and find the answers.

Poor woman being left for someone else when she had 3 littlies and another on the way!

worley · 16/04/2013 08:02

pint of milk.. you must live very close to me. the sad thing is that there were straight away reports Of what was happening on Facebook before it was even reported on the news. and sadly people's face books will be looked at by papers and information gained from them just as they did with the lad who crashed his car into the house a few weeks ago.

she must have been just so devastated and distraught and I think only people that have been that low know how it can seem the only way to stop the pain. that's assuming that it was her that did it of course.