i keep trying to convince my dh to go back to my country with me. the rhetoric about how i (and people like me) are destroying the country when we aren't ripping people off and scrounging benefits is depressing to say the least
i work hard, pay tax, contribute to the community, but nope, fuck me, maybe i came over on that plane full of criminals that someone referred to earlier.
i am glad my children look nice and anglo saxon, and that they have cute home county accents, and their father's english surname, i dread to think how they might be treated in 20 years time, if people were to find out their mother was some scummy migrant 
don't worry, no one is racist, you are entitled to your opinions, and it your country (clear to me after 10+ years it will never be mine, no matter what i give or contribute). i don't know why i read these threads, it blows to read in detail just how low and nasty people think of you