Thanks EV and everyone who sent facebook messages (I can't work out how to reply without having to reply to each one)
I've had a lovely day, and just got back from my pizza tea with dp and kids.
I even got presents to open this morning that I hadn't bought myself
Good luck all those trying for more babies..a couple of my friends who are the same age as me are expecting their fourth and fifth. Makes me finally realise that I really am done. It will be nice to have babies to cuddle, but no more for me. I may have wanted more if I'd started younger, but think I did well to fit in three tbh
We also have the no money/2 bed house issue to factor in, which made having ds slightly irresponsible, and any more would be just plain daft!
My mum had given up on getting any grandchildren, and now has five.
I hope you are tucked up in bed GO. You need to be kinder to yourself.