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Flip, flap, the Fledglings are back! April 2022 Flylady thread, all welcome!

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SingToTheSky · 31/03/2022 20:38

Hello everyone, and welcome to the April Flylady thread!
We welcome newbies and returnees - if you are curious about the system feel free to ask questions or lurk! We do follow it, erm, loosely to say the least. So there is a lot of chat about random life stuff as well as housework, decluttering and organising.

A key element of flylady is not being a perfectionist!
I don’t think the regulars would mind me saying that most of us here are not naturals at housekeeping etc, so please don’t feel we are some intimidating group who demand perfectly shined sinks. We are human. We fall off the wagon. We commiserate and help each other climb back on, and we stock the virtual naughty corner with snacks and blankets for the days when adulting is just too hard.

So, the system:
🔹Some baby steps which are designed to help you build up a routine.
🔹Daily missions to help with sprucing up particular areas in the zones, for example the first zone of the month is the entry/porch and dining room if you have one.
🔹Try and do 15 minutes decluttering a day. It didn’t get cluttered in a week so it will take a lot longer to clear it!
🔹Daily focuses to help shape the week.
🔹Here on the thread many of us post to do lists, but also “ta da” lists of things we’ve achieved that day.
🔹We also recommend the Power of Three technique - if you’re overwhelmed with too much to do, just pick three things and don’t think about the rest.

Anyway, I will post some links each day (hopefully) but whether you follow the system or not - many of us just take the bits we like or build our own flylady style system to suit our own lives - do join in if you want a place to chat about keeping a house and family running!

Finally, thank you hugely to the lovely willow for steering us beautifully through March! 💐

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StillUp · 19/04/2022 21:26

I have over indulged and the house is a tip. Will need the pointy stick tomorrow please.

Zoo that placement sounds brilliant for DS. I have my fingers. Tossed they agree to the GCSEs

BloomingHazel · 20/04/2022 06:00

Whoa! Mumsnet updated 😱

Sing it sounds like you had a lovely time at the wedding.
Up I know what you mean about overindulging - I keep eating mini eggs. They're almost all gone though and there's no more in the shops.
zoo don't overdo it! You have a pretty good list going already
Red I'm glad you ended up leaving. It's not fun to be the one that everyone can rely on when others don't show up.

Ta Das:
🚙 helped DD clean her car today, we took out through the car wash, used their vacuums, then came home and detailed it. It was disgusting! It was her cousins car before
🐥 4 LOLs of bedding
🐥 3 other LOLs
🐥 put out several hot spots, putting things away where they belong
🐥 paid a hospital bill I had forgotten about and came across
🐥 Swept carport
🐥 grocery pickup order placed and picked up
🐥 wrote out chores for DS
🐥 cooked dinner
🐥 watched a few episodes of my show

Back to work tomorrow, we'll see if any flying gets done 🤷‍♀️
I didn't get my lunch ready for tomorrow 😩 but my clothes are out and ready

🍒👋 to everyone

GreenWillowAndCatkins · 20/04/2022 07:52

Eek, they've fiddled with the site! And this time I did have to login again. Good old MN, a month behind themselves as ever.

Apologies for dropping off - we had a lovely family Easter weekend involving sitting in the garden, going to the seaside, Easter hunts for Dd, Ds3, Ds2 and his GF, family Easter dinner with my DM and DBro, putting my new bookshelves in place so the study is almost finished, and too much chocolate! Very little flying got done, but we had a lovely time.

Red great that you put boundaries in place and left. Sometimes that has to be done.

Hazel 💐 for your Dad's anniversary. Hope your DD's fiancé proves to treat her well going forwards. I understand that fear that she is changing herself when she's with him, my parents waited 4 long years for me to see the light over that. I did, eventually, but only after I changed my location and started a life he didn't slot easily into by his rules. That's when I saw I wasn't me, with him. And I met DH 🥰.

Zoo, Up good luck refinding the house.

Ta da:
Nothing

GreenWillowAndCatkins · 20/04/2022 07:53

To do:
Loads.

MN has gone grammar nazi on us, andd won't put a return in without a full stop. FFS.

SingToTheSky · 20/04/2022 09:10

This is odd! Hopefully we will get used to the changes soon.

Bizarrely mine won’t automatically put a capital at the beginning of a line now. WTF.

Glad of the editing feature though as I’ve not been able to do strikethrough for ages on my phone, it always goes funny. Yay!

Only recently woke up, thankfully I dozed back off after waking up at 6. Still really tired and achy though.

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SingToTheSky · 20/04/2022 09:17

This is odd! Hopefully we will get used to the changes soon.

Bizarrely mine won’t automatically put a capital at the beginning of a line now. WTF.

Glad of the editing feature though as I’ve not been able to do strikethrough for ages on my phone, it always goes funny. Yay!

Only recently woke up, thankfully I dozed back off after waking up at 6. Still really tired and achy though.

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SingToTheSky · 20/04/2022 09:17

Oh ffs and double posted too

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TidyingAgain · 20/04/2022 10:31

Hello. MrsTidyHouse here, had to name-change as my iPad is refusing let me use MN. I'll try to think of a better user name sometime.

yesterday was the first day of the new term. We got off to a great start, and I'm washing all the winter jackets today as we have blazing sunshine.

sorry, very disorientated by the ads flashing and sliding along the top of my screen, and not being able to see the previous messages or find mine. Fingers crossed a day in the garden and some help from my kids will see me back to my old name.

Flowers to everyone.

Stilllivinginazoo · 20/04/2022 10:57

WTAF.
WHY CANT I START A NEW SENTENCE WITHOUT A FULLSTOP.
I HATE THIS LAYOUT

Stilllivinginazoo · 20/04/2022 11:01

also why am I now same colour as thread host?
And the rest of its ALL WRONG a fresh kind of hell on my phonethats what this is.urgh

I can't even tada without a full stop FFS..
Tada.
Cats fed.
Wash on.
Wake the rabble.
brekkies and lunch for D's sorted.
S+s.
Wash in drier,more in.
Clear dining table and scrub.
Wash up.
Rinse table.
Clear and clean under it.
Wash up cat water bowl that lives there and has a rather nasty dusty looking bottom,even with water in it!
Field multiple messages from DD who is struggle.
Email school lil zoo won't be in again as has gut issues.
Fold dry wash and put away.
More in drier.
More in machine.

SingToTheSky · 20/04/2022 11:26

Hey Tidy :)
well the new format is driving me a bit batshit too, I’m going to try and just do other stuff for now.

🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨

In the meantime today is anti procrastination day, and remember we are in the boodwa. I’m a bit nervous to navigate away from this tab much so I’ll just drop the launch pad link here

www.flylady.net/c/lp.php

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GreenWillowAndCatkins · 20/04/2022 11:51

The fullstops are totally extraneous and definitely Not My Thing (but apparently not an issue on a web browser rather than my phone 🤷‍♀️) BUT the shrug emoji isn't there on the MN emoji link.

Ta Da
💖 Up, dressed, tea, stop dog yarping at everything, Healthful Walk in the sunshine
🧡 Receive and put away Tesco order
💛 Washed, dressed, S&S, bed stripped, vitamins and meds
💚 First LOL on, breakfast, coffee
💙 Phone call
💜 DW rotated, last night's LOL and this morning's both on line
🤎 Brief in-garden exchange of information with DH as this seems to be the only way it happens these days!
🖤 Find paper work for DS2's old car AGAIN, after DH misplaced it. Back in the filing cabinet where it should be 🤦‍♀️
💖 Healthful snack of 3/4 apple and 12 almonds.

To do:
🌞 Man coming to replace blown kitchen window unit, imminently
🌞 car to be collected between now and 6pm
🌞 walk up to town for recycling, post, tomato puree and pain au chocolate
🌞 writing
🌞 online exercise class at 5pm (this is a test. we will see if it works)
🌞 remake our bed
🌞 hoover boodwa etc

I'm not going to run out of things to do today, I don't think!

merryhouse · 20/04/2022 13:10

zoo - you can change it in Settings (for some reason mine had reset themselves back to Forest Green)

I Don't Like It

WildBlueAndDitzy · 20/04/2022 14:44

Comes onto Mumsnet, gets confused by all the changes, feels a bit relieved it's not just because I updated my browser yesterday, runs away to hide.

MrsTidyHouse2022 · 20/04/2022 17:15

Managed to think up a new username. Not very imaginative, but it does the job.

A total of two hours in the garden, spread over the whole day, and I'm more settled.

Still feel as if I've lost myself by no longer being able to access my past posts, as if someone has erased me. Very uncomfortable.

LB has restarted after-school care, and this has cut back massively on his screen time, much to my relief. LG is now a teenager, and both grew taller than me while away over the holiday.

Once this has posted, I'll look for it on my iPad and try posting on it.

BeanAnTae · 20/04/2022 18:03

Testing. Testing. 123

BeanAnTae · 20/04/2022 18:19

👕🐣😱😘👚👗👖🍷🌿🥳🤩🤯🤡👻🤷🐙🐞🍇🍿🗂️💌🇮🇪🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 emojis are working

Dancingtomusic · 20/04/2022 20:53

Just managed to find my login and get back onto this thread!
This update is odd.

Why is the thread title and post number 1 always at the top of each page?
I wonder if it will stop the people in big mumnets land who dont read the thread title and go off topic....and turns into a slanging match! ( I stay away from other threads.)

Waves to everyone 👋 so glad I could get back on!

SingToTheSky · 21/04/2022 08:33

Morning everyone.

YesTaDa
✏️maths with DD1
✏️short meeting for work
✏️hung Cagbunny mat out to dry in the sun and cleaned up washing machine as bits of the backing had come off
✏️LOL
✏️emptied out bags from trip to mum’s
✏️arranged jewellery in a pretty box
✏️sorted Cagbunny food
✏️bit of BRC sorting
✏️cleaned window and sill behind hutch
✏️cleared and vacuumed top of hutch
✏️LOL into dryer, another LOL on
✏️emptied small box and refilled only with Switch games/accessories, put back on lovely clean windowsill
✏️edited tesco shop

Quite a nice successful day really, but I have so much to do today. Need to get the Caglets up and attempt to make a start.

po3.1
❗️Have breakfast/meds/water, make sure others are awake
❗️Last night’s washing in dryer 😳 and another LOL in
❗️Discuss the day ahead with DH (I think we need to make a daily habit of this)

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SingToTheSky · 21/04/2022 08:35

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New format is still addling my brain, so basically it’s Thursday, which means errand day. We are still in the boodwa. Here are the missions - today’s is the dresser.

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THATunorganisedMUM · 21/04/2022 12:00

Boo 👻

SingToTheSky · 21/04/2022 13:57

Thaaaat hey! 😍

po3.2
❗️Prep for maths lesson at half 2
❗️Laundry
❗️Teach

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GreenWillowAndCatkins · 21/04/2022 14:12

I am not enjoying this new format. And I'm sick of logging in every time, despite ticking the Remember Me box. Oh well, it'll save me some time.

That great to see you! Have most of the Thatlets gone back to school?

YesTaDa:
❤️ Sold DS2's old car for scrap
🧡 Walked to town for errands and recycling
💛 Remade our bed
💚 Did some writing
💙 Healthful Pilates-type exercise
💜 Cooked salmon and spring vegetable parcels for tea. Very nice but 1) I can't eat steamed courgette either and 2) orange does not go with salmon.
❤️ Retired to bed with a cup of tea and my Easter egg!

Ta Da.
❤️ Walked hound
🧡 Made packed lunches
💛 Trip to the British Museum with DS3 - had a lovely time
💚 Now on the train home, hoping I don't drop off and sleep through our stop!

🍒👋 to everyone struggling with the new platform

Stilllivinginazoo · 21/04/2022 15:23

that❤️❤️❤️<passes most gigantic cuppa available>how's things?

I hate the new format.
On a phone it's hard work posting.
I am NOT impressed

Mc3209 · 21/04/2022 21:07

<Resurfacing after a crazy few weeks at work. Logging into MN, slowly looking around with a glazed eyes>

Well, this is new. I like it.

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