OK I have been trying this FLY thing but so far hardly managed to keep to steps 1 and 2 of the baby steps.
I have a 14 week old DS who is EBF and a workaholic DH who never helps with stuff around the house.
I find it hard to do the housework as I am either feeding DS or playing with him or doing childcare chores, plus am knackered due to 3 nightfeeds most nights.
I am not lazy and was formerly quite good with cleaning so I do not understand how people with small babies keep their houses clean.
I'm hoping this FLY thing will work for me if I stick at it.
The only thing is about getting "dressed to shoes" - we don't wear shoes in our house due to new light coloured carpets. Is it essential to do that or am I allowed at least to wear slippers?