RIGHT! EVERYONE STOP WHAT YOU ARE DOING AND GIVE---- OJ ---- YOUR THOUGHTS, PRAYERS AND HUGS

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Update at 20:17 - No more trifles today. Steves breathing not good and he won't take his meds. DN is coming in morning and said about fitting him with a driver.

Update at 20:28 - Got some mates here, not sure if tonight the night

Come on girls!!

OJ - Thinking of you all today.

Thinking of you all today and wishing you strength and peace, as ever.

I do live quite close ( about 45 mins) but im not sure what help a stranger would be TBH. Will do anything though

nab was it last night?

I think NAB is just saying that OJ could do with some extra vibes today.

Thinking of you.

I didnt even consider that wannabe which obviously is strange considering the situation. OBVIOUSLY im around if i can be of any help at all...and im a qualified childcarer with CRB check etc if i can help with chidcare at all even if its a trip to park.

OJ, i'm sorry i didnt get to say goodnight properly on msn last night, i will try and get on there again today, and will also hunt out my mobile so u can contact me if u wish.

love to you all OJ

xx

Thinking of you all today OJ, if i can be of any use just please shout xx

oj, I don't know where you live, but I am in Surrey if that is any use to anyone.

Thinking of you as always.
xx

Hope last night was uneventful oj.

Do you have one of those heat-in-the-microwave hot packs, for your back? I think you can buy heat-up patches from chemists.

Hope your back isn't too sore.

Thinking of you all.

will be thinking of you today OJ

I am obviously too far to be of any practical help, but I am thinking of you all OJ

Tips for aching back are nuerofen, cool or hot pad, deep freeze gel and a warm bath.
I am in the East Midlands but bugger all use sorry as have recently had an op (sorry).
In my thoughts though OJ and family. X

I m in the west midlands if that is any help and I am free today but will have 2 children in tow but a car big enough for 4

if I can give you a hand please shout

don't panic we are ok.
Steve is not taking any meds apart from oramorph, i have to go colloct his patches at 10 as thechemist didn't have any in yesterday i also have to pick up the meds needed for the driver the DN is coming this morning and will sort out enema and maybe the driver.
we have a slide sheet for steve but i am not very good at it as my back is painful.'i am on diclofenac and painkillers

If you ever do need anything shout we are always out and about so picking up stuff or taking the children out is no problem

Glad to hear from you!

May be a daft suggestion but anyone got a tens machine you could try on your back in addition to the pills?

Wishing you and the family a peaceful and uneventful day.

OJ - the offer stands if you need anything. You have my phone number.

Love to you all. xxx

i have a tens machine and hot and cold bags but none any good, i have nerve damage in my back due to disc ops so it's an ongoing thing just made worse by all the hands on stuff day to day.
i now have to go to the doctors as it seems they messed up the driver scripts so have to get them and hope that the chemist has them in the DN is now coming at 2pm.
i will have a hot soak as that always helps

Oh bugger about your back, the meds and having to go back to the doctor.

Can you phone around chemists to see if they have the driver meds, to save you driving time?

The DN may be able to suggest something for your back. Ask for a quick refresher in sliding sheets, just in case there's a way of doing it that causes less pain.

Get some painkilllers for yourself at the chemist too.

xx

Morning OJ. Hope your back feels better after a soak in the bath