RIGHT! EVERYONE STOP WHAT YOU ARE DOING AND GIVE---- OJ ---- YOUR THOUGHTS, PRAYERS AND HUGS

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Update at 20:17 - No more trifles today. Steves breathing not good and he won't take his meds. DN is coming in morning and said about fitting him with a driver.

Update at 20:28 - Got some mates here, not sure if tonight the night

Come on girls!!

Thinking of you all OJ x

thinking of you and your family (another lurker here)

Hi OJ

Am hoping the MIL visit is bearable and that meeting with care team is successful. All these things are so difficult at precisely the time you need things to flow smoothly.

Hope you all have a peaceful day together.

With much love xxx

Yet another lurker - thinking of you all xxx

OJ I rarely venture off the multiples thread but I've been thinking of you and your family and wanted to send you my love and hope that Steve has a peaceful day.

And yet another lurker - I think of you often, you are an inspiration - much love to you all.

One more lurker who wants to tell you that you are an in inspirational woman and amazing wife. I am thinking of you, Steve and the kids. xxx

Thinking of you all. x

Just to say that I too am thinking of you.

Thinking of you and your family OJ.
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Thinking of you all, OJ.

best wishes to you all and hope that Steve has a better night tonight. hope SS don't reduce the care hours - seems downright cruel in the circumstances.

Big > from mad swimsuit woman. Glad Steve managed his trifle Bless him - there are some things that show you can't keep a good man down!

Thinking of you all oj xxxxx

Thinking of you OJ

(((((((((((enormous hugs))))))))) x

Another silent supporter here - thinking of you all x

OJ my thoughts are, as always, with you and your family - i don't often post but you haven't been far from my thoughts most days

I hope Steve has had a peaceful day and that things have gone ok with your meetings today

Sending you strength and good vibes xx

I hope the evil MIL visit went okay!

OJ - another who reads but hasn't posted - {{{hugs}}} and love for you and yours. You are in my thoughts often xxx

Another lurker here that thinks of you every day OJ. Love and good thoughts for you and your family.

thinking of you all.

Another one who hasn't posted before - other people have said what I would have done, only so much better.

But I have thought of you, of your courage, dignity and forgiveness, so often. You have risen above the acts of others at a time when not only should you not have to deal with this, but when, to be honest, all of Mumsnet would have applauded if you'd chinned someone. I am inspired by you, really I am. And I am thinking of you more than ever right now.

oj, I also usually only lurk on your threads - you're all in my thoughts, you and Steve truly are an inspiration.
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Thinking of you and Steve and your dc xxx

Oh OJ, strength to you all.