I have a sore fanjo please come and diagnose it so I don't have to go to the doctor

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Symptons?

Erm, my fanjo is sore

yes but what type of sore? inside ? outside? itchy? sharp pains? throbbing pain?

have yo been cycling al ot?
excessive sex?
spd?
symptoms are needed to diagnose

Erm, sore kind of around the lips, then during sex sore inside, partner said it felt a bit dry , and stingy when put soap on in the shower

bit of cycling, not excessive sex

sounds like thrush

go see a nurse, or doctor.
soap stininging means some sort of cut or abrasions.
cycling gives a sore fanjo. i know only too well.
dryness, well, he didnt get you excited enough did he?

when i had thrush i only had a bit of itching, it was mainly pain like u describe, i didnt go docs but i did buy oral thrush treatment and it worked a treat.

You don't want to be using a lot of soap there, even if you're not sore. Could be thrush, could be abrasions. I'd try to let the area rest and breathe, see if that helps ... Thrush is more itchy, imo, and there's an unpleasant smell and unusual discharge, neither of which you've mentioned ...

Oh, and FGS, if you're a bit dry, don't have intercourse! Use lube, or wait until you're wetter, but don't have intercourse while dry! That's probably the source of the problem!

(Any chance you're menopausal? Or taking antihistamines? I think those cause vaginal dryness, too.)

thrush i think....go the chemistand get the duo treatment...tablet then cream to soothe the burning, dont use soap down there it will make it worse

I didn't think I was dry when we started. Everything had been really quite entirely satisfactory

Then when we did the deed I said "ouch oh god" and he said "you are actually rather dry up the top"

Everyone has days where there's more or less moisture. You don't want to be shagging if you're dry anywhere.

I think you may just be a bit tender. Unless you have a bad smell or strange discharge, I don't think this is thrush. I think air and a bit of time will help.

So what made me tender in the first place? I was a bit sore during the day, when I wiped after using the loo

NQC I should have just emailed you in the first place

see but i didnt have discharge or a bad smell?

(I really should NOT have been dry. I had already had an orgasm)

Well I have not got discharge

will check smell

you shouldn't use any soaps there, not even mild ones. Just clean with water.

It sounds like it could be thrush - I think you can buy a treatment over the counter.

She's not got itching either, though.

Hmmm, dunno, sometimes bits just get sore. Change of weather, putting on the central heating, making the air too dry? Are you drinking enough water?

TNC ok heres what i would do, would get some thrush stuff just incase (process of elimination ) then i would go and run a bath, chuck LOTS of salt in there, have a good long soak in the salt water, do the thrush treatment and see how it is over the weekend.

you don't always get a discharge with thrush.

Lubrication really does vary. Cycle, how hydrated you are, etc etc.

can you use and hand mirror to have a look?