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I will be 46 in two weeks.

The last few times me and dh have had sex I have been very dry and last night he commented that things were not so enjoyable because of it.

Relevant info, I am turned on when we do it and I do orgasm.
I had a hysterectomy at 37. I haven't gone through the menopause that I know of.

Help! What do I do to make it the way it used to be? Please don't say GP...

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It was a bit of a shock!

you say you have 4 children and had 11 pregnancies- goodness- were the 7 miscarriages? so sorry if they were.

2 stillborn and five miscarriages

Sorry you've been through such hard times, OP. Glad you've got the original problem sorted and you've got your referral.

Just thought I'd drop a note on this topic in case other people are searching: the Depo Provera injection can also cause vaginal dryness.

I can recommend the Durex "Play" lubes, I especially like the minty one