Thank you all for replying. I haven't been checked for HPV (last smear was fine though), however I do have HS1 (type 1, the milder one).
I caught it from DH. We'd been together two years when I caught it, he'd not thought about coldsores, he has had them since birth (passed on from his Mother).
Grrr. To be honest, although I am still somewhat upset at having it , I live with it now. I felt like topping myself when I found out , I was very unreasonably upset and angry. But with healthy diet and exercise I have controlled it and have only ever had 2 outbreaks in 2 years. So, it could also be causing this, could it?
I have had a LOT of thrush recently. I have been on antibiotics recently and they always make me ill in some capacity. I was on them for an infected birthmark on my head. I've just stopped taking them , so I guess they could be causing thrush-and you think thrush could cause irritated skin and consequently, these cuts, san? I really, really would rather not go back to the gyno. It stresses me out a lot going there-I don't suppose anybody loves it, but I have been there a fair few times recently and just the thought of going again isn't pleasant.
Thing is I have had this BEFORE I caught HS1. And I am not dry, I actually am 'wetter' than average really-I went to the Gyno worried about discharge about a year ago and was told nothing wrong at all. I believed as it didn't smell or anything, wasn't unpleasant just wet.
I'm only early thirties.
I hate discussing things like this and feel awful, but at the same time I want to because I stress so much and It's so reassuring to know that women will reply honestly and without airs and graces. Sometimes, owning a vagina feels more trouble than It's worth.
If it is HS1 causing it, does anybody know how exactly that works? It doesn't feel like an outbreak-nothing like it. Is it just the body's defences kicking in or the fact that it irritates from the inside or some such thing?
Thanks again. Posting wasn't something I really wanted to do, you've all been very pleasant and helpful. 