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I don't know what to feed my baby

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Gemedin · 06/07/2020 13:30

Hi. I have a 10 month old boy and I'm really struggling with what to feed him for lunch/dinner.

Started weaning at 5 months which was fine, he did well with purées and was doing well with thicker/not fully blended meals THEN we hit 7 months and he went on a very stressful hunger strike where he refused everything apart from yogurt. This lasted until 9 months when he suddenly started accepting food again. He also got his top 2 teeth through so don't know if this is was the reason for the food refusal. He has never been great with the bottle so I don't think he's overly fussed about or motivated by food.

Because of the refusal, I feel like we've gone backwards with the weaning and I'm so scared of putting him off food again that I don't know what to offer him! Because of this I have started using baby readymeals/pouches. They are the 10mth+ ones and he does fine with them. I tried him with spaghetti bolognese last week (my dinner from the night before) but he didn't eat much - I feel like it seemed a bit too dry for him. He does well with lumps and bits but seems to prefer wet foods if that makes sense.

I would really like to stop relying on readymade food/pouches for many reasons but I'm scared of him rejecting everything else. I don't know where to start with textures, sauces etc. Does anyone have any ideas that could help me? It probably doesn't help that I am not very good at cooking - happy to learn/try, I just have never really had to cook much before so don't know what to do.

I would really appreciate any ideas/advice/recipes!!

Thank you x

OP posts:
Gemedin · 08/07/2020 20:26

@Spam88 thank you thank you thank you! That's all super helpful. I'll start with pasta sauce and try build up my confidence from there 😊.
Thanks again x

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Gemedin · 08/07/2020 20:30

@Fancyateapottea hello! Thanks for replying. Good to know I'm not the only one!! I feel like everyone else just seems to know how to cook whereas I don't even know where to start!!

A few people have mentioned the Annabelle Karmel book - will look into it.

When you fed yours spaghetti bolognese from scratch, did you blend/purée it?

I wondered about trying something like hello fresh for a bit but wasn't sure if it would be things I could give DS bits of. It would probably help with my cooking skills though!!

Will keep that in mind about the atmosphere. Definitely don't want him feeling tense or having a negative relationship with food because I'm stressing over it. Must try and relax 😌.

Thanks again x

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mynameiscalypso · 08/07/2020 21:36

If you have a kindle/kindle app, I really recommend the River Cottage Baby and Toddler cookbook (I'm not sure it's in print anymore). There are some lovely recipes in there which are so easy to make and there's some really excellent advice around how to make mealtimes relaxed and enjoyable.

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