no jelly!
I layer mine, it's a very moveable feast, pick an item from each section
1)cake : sponge fingers, trifle sponge, cake, swiss roll slices
2)amaretti biscuits, crushed
3)fruit: jam or actual real fruit
- more crushed amaretti, or stand them on their edged for prettiness around the bowl
5)fruit: again, either jam or real fruit (for preference use both in separate layers
6)delicious eggy vanilla-ey gloopy custard
7)cream: extra thick, or lightly whipped, or piped rosettes
- flaked almonds, chocolate curls, decorative fruits slices
There must be NO jelly, and there must be enough sherry in it to make it risky to drive after a bowlful.
In an ideal world I make all the things, sponge, custard, jam, in a less than ideal world I use shop bought.