Another reason for single sex toilets.

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Yesterday evening in a unisex toilet my DD was holding the door of the cubicle her boyfriend was using.

She felt something on her side and turned round to see 3 lads with their dicks in hand, pissing up and down her body. She tried to push them away but they carried on, laughing.

She reported it to a bouncer but he somehow managed to blame her and then squared up to her when she refused to go back inside to identify the perpetrators.

Nice.

I don’t even dignify the issue with outlining “reasons” against it

it’s just a flat no

Oh my god that is truly vile! I hope she is ok, your poor daughter!

No words for this! Your poor daughter. Absolutely disgusting.

What was the venue? Name them, tweet them, report them, etc etc etc

And why was your dd holding the door? Didn't it have a lock?

That's antisocial behaviour not a unisex toilet issue! There are plenty of incidents of lad in the ladies toilets too. The club did need her to identify them though. Write to the management, they will be in a better position than the bouncer, CCTV may be able to identify them

That should be reported to the police. It is assault.

It is unisex toilet issue, wherever men go shit like this follows! I don't know if there were single sex toilets also available, but this should never have happened, women are not safe around men&this is why we need single sex spaces! I doubt they would have done it if the roles were reversed and the boyfriend was holding the door instead!

this needs reporting to the police

Isn’t this assault? I’m pretty sure it is.
What a truely horrible experience for your daughter. If she feels able to go to the police I would encourage her. If they are willing to
do that (who deliberately pisses on a strange woman??!!) they will certainly not stop here.

So she wasn't in the toilet

• hardly a toilet issue

Just straight assault

Actually this thread reminded me of this that happened last year where I live...

https://www.walesonline.co.uk/news/wales-news/police-investigating-after-well-known-28358841

A lot of men are disgusting creatures!

She was in the toilets, but not the cubical as I understand it.
So yes. A toilets issue.

She says she doesn’t want to report it.

She’s very upset. We are going away for a few days this week so I’m hoping she can start to process it.

That is fucking shocking

Personally, I would avoid that venue and all like it. Was it a nightclub? All you hear about them these days is related to drugs and also to injecting women so they can be raped.

I am sure I will get flamed for this, but it really does need reporting.

Maybe call the venue, ask them to keep hold of the cctv for that night so they don't delete it, and hopefully after a few days she will feel able to report it.

This is an horrendous sexual assault, and made worse by the bouncer, and I dont think a few days away is going to put this right. I think she will regret it for the rest of her life if she doesn't report it, and fast, before CCTV of who went into the toilet after her is wiped.

Oh come off it. You’re also on my girls school thread fighting for boys rights to degrade their education so I think you have an axe to grind. Are you a man?

@FaeryRing

@midgetastic ‘s post on this thread doesn’t even dignify a response - it’s so stupid

(and to answer your question @midgetastic is female and even has a daughter!)

what was your daughter’s boyfriend’s response OP?

I’m struggling to get to the bottom of his response. He’s consumed by guilt for not lamping them I think. He seems to have been concerned about getting in trouble for hitting them (he’s done amateur fighting stuff).

I suppose you never know how you will react in a crisis. I’m disappointed. They need horse whipping.

She doesn’t want me to get involved but I think I’ll phone the venue.

Disgusting- the ‘lads’ and the bouncer
Please report- hope DD is ok soon

why are you struggling? disappointed? or your daughter being evasive?