Hey. I'm gay. 39. I've been messaging anither guy for a weeks who's 39. But e works a lot and he lives just over 1 hour north of me.
We had a 2 hour video chat and lots of messaging. We're were meant to meet tomorrow night, but now he says he might have to cover a shift.
I'm overthinking as he doesn't drive, but says he used to go by train to see an ex, on a 5 hour jouney, but he had more time and a student loan then to afford travel. I don't know if he's making excuses not to see me as now he says he is ill, which is true. I've heard his bad throat., iver the phone last night.
The other thing is he seems to have a very jokey sense of.humor and doesn't seem.to he serious much! I can tell we like each other but I've always been an oberthinker, was really looking forward to seeing him tomorrow night, and he did want tonsee me before Christmas, but now days he might be busy for 2 weeks! I just never can trust anyone what they say anymore, but he dies seem very genuine!