not sure this belongs here but i feel down

[Broodybabywannabe]

but im feeling a bit down...

i saw my niece sunday, and it really made me think of all that my dad will miss out on/ already has...

i just feel sad, TTC is stressful and is making me stressed, jus seems amplified atm

not saying this is comparable to some peoples feelings here and dont mean to whine but i just feel like parents dying young (mum when i was 10 dad at 17)just makes me feel a bit alone sometimes.

You never have to compare to others, if you feel low then you deserve to be lifted.
I am sorry to hear about your parents, that must have been very hard for you.
How long have you been TTC for, that can really make you feel low and is a very hard time (((((big hug))))).

thanks dita, i had my coil out 2 weeks ago which on the face of it sounds pathetic to be sad about doesnt it? thing is, i havent had a period since feb, so am feeling down about that more than not being PG... makes me feel somethings wrong with me...

I wish i had my mum here to talk to i think thats another thing making me sad

So sorry I had gone when you replied.
I think having your coil out can play all sorts of havoc with your hormones, although I am sure others would be better qualified to confirm this.
Don't ever feel that your feeling are worth less because others are worse off. We can not always help how we feel and feeling down is really hard, sometimes I think even more so if you don't feel justified, that is something I have a lot.
Do yu have another female role model you can talk to, it must be awful for you not having your mum when you feel like this.

um not really, my step mum and i are close but she doesnt know im TTC but i do have a thread on here thats been quite useful, it jus makes me sad to feel i might have something wrong, im sure im getting self at it and feeling more hopeful now, thanks for all your help x

Could you tslk to gp if you really think there may be something not right, sorry I am a bit all over the place at the momentbut don't want you to think I am not replying to you quickly.
Mn is great for making you feel less alone isn't it.

yeah , its jsut nice to know that relative strangers do care IYSWIM, i think tht i will give it a month and see what happens, going to gp would make it all seem too real, DP says its the stress lol

Hi, how are you feeling today? Dp say the most useful things dopn't they.

hiya feeling much better, have been temping and all the right things am just trying to relax now.... thanks for caring x

Hi, glad you are feeling better today.