should i tell my counsellor where to go!?

[ruthmollymummy]

Been to see her 5 times now I think and the first 3 or 4 were really helpful, tiring but great. Now, however, I feel like she's digging too much and her area of choice seems to by my relationship with my husband. I feel like its a disloyalty because he's just the most fantastic husband ever and it makes me kinda uneasy. But do I tell her her work is done, so shove it!??
(p.s. it's free counselling with the NCS)

don;t tell her to shove it but tell her you don;t want to go there.

I think you should keep an open mind and just go with the flow - you might open up new chains of thought that way

tell her how you feel (angry and threatened??) work with her on that.

thanks, i'm just a total pushover and if she was even to suggest we carry on i'd go "ok". But i do feel a little uneasy about the new direction she's taking. I'll see how it goes tomorrow cos DH and I have had a v uneventful week as far as disagreements etc go....