I feel so low, not eaten since Friday, not slept well for weeks, can't stop crying ...bit of a mess really

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and I can't seem to lift myself out of it.

Not expecting any replies, I just needed to get it OUT. And yes there is a good reason for it- I am having a major crisis in my life and trying to organise moving in the next few weeks, finding a new job, and generally getting myself back together.

I just feel so sad

hi maybe 2008 is gonna change things i hope your crisis sorts itself out

Don't have anything to say really, but I have been in your position and posted on here, just cos I needed to say it and it made me feel better just knowing people had tken the time to answer.
Hope it gets better.

hiya css if you ever need to talk im always here. i know you dont know me but sometimes that is the best thing to do, hope things start to pick up for you soon xxx

Sorry you're feeling rough. It will pass, but it's crap in the meantime when you're going through it.

well if you are moving, getting a new job and getting yourself back together, thats amazing considering how you feel.
well done for trying so hard and well done for coming on here and talking about, I have had alot of support from her on and off over last few years

Hi, Iv'e been where you are and I bet loads of others have as well.

You just need to write a list of all the things that are bothering you.

Go from there, see if you can sort the easy things out and leave the difficult things till later, when/if you are ready to deal with them.

It's difficult knowing what to say without knowing what your major crisis is but I hope I have helped in some way.

Sure someone will come along in a minute who can help more

Oh goodness I hadn't expected so many responses- thank you all. x

I have 3 job options in front of me and am incapable of making decisions right now

What are the job options,pros & cons.

Job 1
PROS CONS
1
2
3
3

Job 2
PROS CONS
1
2
3
3

Job 3
PROS CONS
1
2
3
3

Job 1
Pro's
Love the job
Pays well

Cons
Very tiring
Lots of travel/time away
Been doing it for years so I'm getting a little bored of it now- no new challenges really

Job 2
Pro's
Home-based
Something always wanted to do

Cons
Financial risk- comission based rather than salaried
Could get bored working from home

Job 3
Pro's
This job is something I have spent my entire career training for.
I feel its what I am meant to be doing.
Would love the job which would also open up more prospects for me.
This job would give me financial security and a new challenge.

Cons
Commute of around 1h 40 mins each way per day

job 3 - no contest

I'd go for job 3, you only had 1 con for this.

Commute of around 1h 40 mins each way per day.

Well you are doing a certain amount of travelling in the job 1 anyway and you said you are bored of it and job 3 offers you more opportunity.

Job 2 offers a lot of uncertainty doesnt it, a few grey areas. Working from home is quite lonely and you mentioned financial rick which alot of people wouldn't risk.

Its your decision but I can see why you are feeling low, this along with moving. What's your gut decision?

Thank you ALL so much.

I initially turned it down, but am hopeful that I can renegotiate with them and may even be able to wangle a day working from home.

Thanks.....that at least has made me feel a little bit brighter x

Are you moving nearer to job 3?
Hope you feel better formaking the decision xxx

No I won't be any nearer really.

Thanks I do feel a bit bettter x