My DS came today for a few days he is 14 but lives with his dad. It was his choice to stay with his dad, when we split he had started high school and didn't want to leave his friends.... I had to respect his decision because exH threatened to take me to court and to fight for custody, I didn't want that.
So taday he came, the minute he walked through the door I notices cuts on his arm, I didn't say anything to start but waited till he was in and settled.
He has told me in the past he hears noises (or voices.like someone mumbling!), and I just thought it might be an overactive conscience. but today he said the noice mumbles and tells him he is bad, and told him to cut his arms, he says it doesn't say anything about anyone else.
I have recently found out he is smoking, and he has tried cannabis, I did nt make a big issue but told him I wasn't happy, I thought it might just be a phase, he told me so it wasn't on his mind (that's what he does!!)
Now I feel sick...........wtf do I do!!