Charlottesmum5, I really recommend you go to low carb boot camp section and have a good read.
But here is a starter article
authoritynutrition.com/how-many-carbs-per-day-to-lose-weight/
Fat does not make you fat.
Processed carbs do.
Eating fat won't make you ill, it will make you full.
It will make your body switch to fat burning mode.
But only if you cut out sugar and carbs.
Everything you were told about fat is wrong.
Example daily menu for me
Scrambled eggs with butter, smoked salmon.
Chicken, avocado, bacon and spinach salad with olive oil and lime and thyme dressing
Steak and broccoli and garlic mushrooms in cream sauce
Greek yogurt with 5 sliced strawberries.
Drink: water, fizzy water, black coffee, green tea, gin and slimline at weekend.
Shred every other day and swim or if no time, 10 min jumping jacks, press ups, ab crunches and dumb bells.
But seriously look at low carb boot camp.