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Is 12 too late to start an instrument from scratch?

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Dancergirl · 04/07/2015 12:30

Dd is 12 and just finishing Year 7.

She's tried recorder and piano in the past but gave them up. A lot of her friends play musical instruments and I've suggested maybe she takes up something new but both she and I are unsure which instrument.

She is a bit unsure about it all but I know dd, she needs lots of encouragement and I think as long as it's the right instrument for her, I think she would really enjoy it.

I'm just worried that 12 is late to start when lots of other dc her age are already at a high grade or starting a second instrument or whatever. I know it's not a competition but I don't want her to be daunted or put off.

I'm musical myself - I played the piano from about age 8 which was ok but I found it very solitary, and then started clarinet at secondary which I loved and enjoyed ensemble playing.

I thought dd should maybe consider a more unusual instrument as there is more demand for them but she's very small physically so it's got to something she could manage size wise.

Any ideas?

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horseymum · 14/10/2025 22:17

Definitely not too late to start. Saxophone is pretty easy to get going on, especially after recorder. I wouldn't do violin at that age unless very motivated. Most double bass players don't start until teens and you don't have to be tall. It's quick to get good enough to be in an orchestra too. Bassoon is relatively easy if you take to it but very expensive. Tuba would mean she was always in demand. I guess just be led by her and what opportunities there are locally.

horseymum · 14/10/2025 22:26

Oh I hadn't read the update! Glad you found something for you!

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