Who would you 'blame'?

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If you found out that your husband was sleeping with a girl 12 years younger than him. So girl aged 15/16. Husband is 27/28.

Husband.

Husband.

In what way could an underage girl ever be to "blame" for being groomed and abused by an adult man?

Sorry but it's not really an ethical dilemma. The husband is to blame

I don’t understand how you’d blame anyone other than the husband? He’s the one both having an affair and committing statutory rape.

What @Samanabanana said. Husband.

The adult who is having sex with a child of course.

Him, he is the adult

Why??

If you really need to ask the question you should be giving your head a wobble .

Husband.
He's married
And older than her.
She's a child.

Is there even a debate here?

There's a name for men like him.

Why are you asking

Husband

Husband, who would swiftly become ex husband

There is no debate or gray area here. The husband is a disgusting human being who took advantage of a child.

The child abuser. And anybody who defends the child abuser.

Abusers are responsible for abusing. Not their victims.

If you are for real, you should be ashamed of yourself for even asking.

If he’s sleeping with a 15 year old that’s illegal surely?

Holy crap! The husband! 110%! And if I knew anyone who had made the other choice I would judge them horribly for excusing child sexual abuse.

Wtf? That’s rape. Who do you think is to blame. She’s a child.

He'd be a peadophile and I would report it to the police

The fact you even have to ask is concerning tbh

It's not an ethical dilemma if the girl is so young. He's breaking the law.

I would also hope that the wife in this situation would immediately notify both the parents of the child involved and the police.

I'd blame the peadophile husband