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Elderly parents

My old dad has died

30 replies

Davina1234 · 07/07/2026 12:34

My dad has died. He was 87 and in a nursing home. He was a grumpy git at times but my grumpy git. I just really miss him. I’m pleased he’s at peace now but I still can’t believe he’s gone.
I just wanted to acknowledge him. RIP Dad. Love you xxx

OP posts:
nzeire · 07/07/2026 12:36

Sorry for your loss, I recently lost my dad too, hard :(
take care of yourself x

Nsky62 · 07/07/2026 12:37

I’m sorry for your loss, another phase of your life, grieve now

DramaAlpaca · 07/07/2026 12:37

I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending hugs.

He'll always be your grumpy git Flowers

Flourshiba · 07/07/2026 12:41

Sending love 🤍

RaininSummer · 07/07/2026 12:49

Aw. Remember your grumpy old git with love and affection. X

PermanentTemporary · 07/07/2026 15:06

It’s always sad. I hope the good and perhaps less grumpy memories come back soon to comfort you 💐

Catarinabella · 07/07/2026 15:07

Condolences 💐

MsGreying · 07/07/2026 15:14

Sympathies.

flatwhiteinabucket · 07/07/2026 15:37

My deepest condolences 🙏 I lost my 'glass half empty' dad 18 months ago.

It's a funny thing, I was just thinking about him a few minutes ago, and how it was a privilege to know him, and then your thread came along, OP. Good old (grumpy) dads. 💐

Idlewilder · 07/07/2026 15:41

Davina1234 · 07/07/2026 12:34

My dad has died. He was 87 and in a nursing home. He was a grumpy git at times but my grumpy git. I just really miss him. I’m pleased he’s at peace now but I still can’t believe he’s gone.
I just wanted to acknowledge him. RIP Dad. Love you xxx

Aw, even in their 80s when we know they've had a good long life and are often driving us crazy - we love them and miss them. Raising a virtual glass to your grumpy old man!

FadedRed · 07/07/2026 15:45

Sorry for your loss 💐, Davina, it doesn’t matter what age (or how grumpy) he was still your dad and you will miss him.
My dad died over thirty years ago, but I still think of him, but it stopped hurting some years ago, and it will with you too, in time.

Yogafiend · 07/07/2026 15:46

So sorry for your loss.

SylvanMoon · 07/07/2026 17:19

So sorry for your loss, grumpy old dad or not, he was your dad.

Davina1234 · 07/07/2026 17:25

Thank you everyone. I’ve been a bit low today as trying to choose songs and poems for his funeral service.
He had a great life, he was an extremely intelligent man and a wonderful character who said what he thought regardless!! It used to get him into trouble but he didn’t care.
It won’t be the same without him x

OP posts:
60andcounting · 07/07/2026 17:26

Sorry for your loss..

Concoction · 07/07/2026 17:53

I’m so sorry for your loss. You’ve painted a very descriptive picture of him.
I recently lost mine too.
To dads 🍻

UseItOrLoseIt1984 · 07/07/2026 17:54

So sorry for your loss OP x

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 07/07/2026 17:58

I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm currently trying to juggle care for my old dad with a very demanding full time job.

shellyleppard · 07/07/2026 17:59

@Davina1234 so sorry for your loss x

PineappleCoconut · 07/07/2026 18:01

So sorry for your loss Davina

He sounds like he was a character.
I lost my grumpy old git 3.5 years ago.
We were still doing things that we think would make him laugh.

namechange62 · 07/07/2026 19:00

Aww. My dad was a Grumpy man too. He was a very complex man but I loved him and I know he loved his DC.. He used to tell me I could have the top brick off the chimney. My DC called him Grumpy Granddad..
He's been gone just over 3 yrs just before he turned 85.
Miss him lots.
I'm very sorry for your loss..

HarryBlackberry1 · 07/07/2026 19:06

So sorry for your loss x

Livpool · 07/07/2026 19:09

Sorry to hear this

TheClocksFast · 07/07/2026 19:19

Awwww, so sorry to hear this… Thinking of you. Xx

unsync · 07/07/2026 19:52

You have my condolences. My lovely Pa died four months ago. It was time for him to go too, but it doesn't make it any less painful does it?