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Elderly parents

My mum died today

34 replies

Loopyanna · 02/11/2022 21:03

Just that, she died today. I'm devastated. She was old and had been very ill but my god I miss her already. I can't believe my mum has gone.
I couldn't get there in time and she was alone and scared and it breaks my heart. I'm so sorry mum, I love you so much xxx

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Chomolungma · 02/11/2022 21:04

So sorry to hear this OP Flowers

DotBall · 02/11/2022 21:05

❤️
I am so sorry x

EweCee · 02/11/2022 21:05

I'm so sorry for your loss. Would you like to share some memories and stories about your mother?

daisydoods · 02/11/2022 21:06

You and your mum are in my prayers op Flowers

BigFatLiar · 02/11/2022 21:06

Sorry to hear this. No matter how prepared you think you are it still comes as a shock.

Blue2021 · 02/11/2022 21:08

I’m so so sorry OP. Sending you lots of love and support. Xx

NellesVilla · 02/11/2022 21:08

So sorry, OP 💐

Hope you shared some happy times and can enjoy reflecting upon them ♥️

Rayn22 · 02/11/2022 21:08

So sorry! It is devastating and you will still not quite believe it! I am two years on and never thought I would get over it. Still think about her every day but it is not as raw! Take care and get lots of rest!

Justpondering12 · 02/11/2022 21:09

💐

dementedma · 02/11/2022 21:10

So very sorry. My.mum is 87. I know I have this still to come. Thinking of you OP.

Mercedesbenz2022 · 02/11/2022 21:10

So sorry to hear about your mum
xx

LeaveLeaveLeave · 02/11/2022 21:11

I’m very sorry @Loopyanna. The person dying doesn’t always want to put their family through the final moments.
Some people even wait until family are not there. So please don’t upset yourself thinking about the end. 💐

momtoboys · 02/11/2022 21:11

I'm so sorry. I don't care how old a person is, it really hurts to lose your mom.

Loopyanna · 02/11/2022 21:12

Thank you everyone, I just can't believe she's gone. My poor mum 😥💔

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MsFrog · 02/11/2022 21:12

Really sad to see this post. It's devastating to lose your mum, no matter age or circumstances. Take care of yourself, OP, and remember all that grief is your love for her continuing, and I'm sure she deserves it. I bet she was wonderful xxxxxx

Loopyanna · 02/11/2022 21:15

She was the best, I was so lucky to have her as my mum xx

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Geamhradh · 02/11/2022 21:17

So sorry Flowers be kind to yourself. Are you with someone?

CaroleFuckingBaskin · 02/11/2022 21:18

So very sorry. 💐xx

lollipoprainbow · 02/11/2022 21:18

@Loopyanna my lovely mum died a month ago, I miss her so much. Like yours she was very ill and I wasn't there when she died despite being with her most of the week. I think sometimes they want to die alone so as not to upset us. How lucky are we to have had such lovely mums Flowers

Angelinadarling · 02/11/2022 21:18

You and your lovely mum are in my thoughts and heart tonight, and over the next days 💖💖

Loopyanna · 02/11/2022 21:19

I have all my lovely family here supporting me. She was a good old girl with a wicked sense of humour. I'll miss her giggles x

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33goingon64 · 02/11/2022 21:20

Sorry for your loss OP. My Mum died a few weeks ago and I wasn't there at the end. She died at 6 in the morning and we were asleep. We know the nurses were with her. I don't feel bad. She wouldn't have known and I doubt very much that she would have wanted us to see her take her last breath. I don't honestly think I would want that for my DC either. Be kind to yourself and think of the good stuff about her, not how she died.

flowertoday · 02/11/2022 21:21

Sorry to hear about the loss of your mum. She sounds lovely.
Please take care of yourself 💐❤

teaandtoastwithmarmite · 02/11/2022 21:22

I'm so sorry op xx

Exasperatednow · 02/11/2022 21:23

I'm so sorry. I posted here my mum died and it helped. Why don't you tell us about here.

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