Posting for traffic as I have no idea where to start. I know I need to talk to her and I don't want to fuck it up. She doesn't vomit after every meal but it is frequently, I think. I started to get suspicious so have gone in the bathroom a few times after her and there's an acrid smell. I think she may have started self harming as well.
There's nothing I can immediately link it to, no deaths, problems with friends or issues at home or anything like that but I do know MH doesn't always work like that. She seemed ok through lockdown and although she would rather continue studying from home she has gone back in easily. She has however put on some weight and is now a size 12/14 and only 5' 3. She's not massive but I doubt she'll grow much taller so could do with losing a little. I was going to gently bring it up with her after half term anyway but the possible bulimia means that's a stupid idea.
Does anyone know how I can help her please?