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Donor conception

For anyone with experience of sperm or egg donation to share support and advice. Please remember this board isn’t for debate about donor conception.

due october 2025

38 replies

bluebella2 · 23/02/2025 18:04

I have seen a thread for October babies but I wanted to start one with people I can relate to!

I'm 5.5 weeks, donor cycle and I'm 46 years old!

I'm hoping there's more like me on here? I've had 3mmc 3 chemical, 8 rounds ivf, 4 with donor eggs. I'm tired! Now I'm pregnant and anxious that it's all gonna go wrong.

I had hcg done 14dp5dt and ut was 7640!! I should be happy, but dr google wont let me 😂

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cinnamonda · 23/02/2025 22:06

Awww congratulations. So happy for you. Please try to enjoy the pregnancy experience.
stop googling, no benefit from it.
if you want to google them search for “positive visualisation for IVF”. Best of luck to you and your new baby

bluebella2 · 24/02/2025 07:28

@cinnamonda thank you so much for your reply. I am happy, but also guarding my heart. I have a scan on Monday so I'm hopeful that will give some reassurance. My nurse said the hcg levels could indicate multiples 🙃

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daisypizza · 26/02/2025 00:36

Not in the same situation but wanted to wish you luck. I have one child via egg donation and relate to the scary feelings especially when you have had such a journey. Just take it one day at a time.

bluebella2 · 26/02/2025 14:50

@daisypizza thank you so much. I really appreciate your comment. It's a nervous time! Everyday I'm grateful that it's still going. I'm 6 weeks today, so that feels like a milestone but still scary

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Annie1306 · 26/02/2025 22:18

Almost similar timeliness.

Turning 40 in April
Donor cycle, Day2 embryo was transfered on 7th Feb. BFP on 20th and 23rd. Exactly 5 weeks today ( 25th Feb), second ivf cycle, first failed attempt to try to collect my own eggs, no eggs :(

Don't feel much symptoms other than occasional sore breats and tiredness occasionally again. This makes me anxious but then many people have no symptoms.

First scan on 18th March. I am with Bournehall Cambridge.

bluebella2 · 27/02/2025 05:37

@Annie1306 congratulations! We are very similar timelines, I'm in for a scan on Monday but they are bringing me in early because my hcg was so high. They need to check earlier because of that.

Symptoms are similar to yours, sore boobs and a bit more tired. But it's still early days. Crossing everything for both of us! My clinic is GCRM Glasgow

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Annie1306 · 27/02/2025 07:19

All the best for your scan @bluebella2 ! Did you had any symptoms? I am worried as I have none and the little that I had have also kinda disappeared since last two days. Don't know how early can they scan.

bluebella2 · 27/02/2025 18:52

@Annie1306 I've had symptoms but they come and go. Like you I am worrying a bit, I keep touching my boobs to check they're still sore. But I haven't had much else, nausea here and there but not much

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Annie1306 · 28/02/2025 07:53

All the best for scan on Monday! Let me know how it goes ! Did you notify your GP yet? I spoke to my fertility clinic and they moved my scan earlier to 11th March. Also I have booked beta hcg on Monday and Wednesday. Surprisingly they didn't do beta hcg.

bluebella2 · 28/02/2025 09:51

@Annie1306 that's great they've brought your scan forward, they say the 2ww is hard! But this is so hard aswell. My clinic don't do hcg either! They made an expectation because of my history and I was so anxious. But they wouldn't do a second! How are you feeling?

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bluebella2 · 28/02/2025 18:20

@Annie1306 I haven't told gp yet as I won't feel confident until the scan. I'm so nervous

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TreadLightly3 · 01/03/2025 08:09

Congrats!! Enjoy your pregnancy xx

bluebella2 · 01/03/2025 18:13

@TreadLightly3 thank you so much ☺️

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bluebella2 · 03/03/2025 09:42

Ive just had my scan.... and it's twins!!! Im so relieved, I had spotting this weekend and I expected bad news but both babies had a heartbeat beat

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cinnamonda · 03/03/2025 12:01

bluebella2 · 03/03/2025 09:42

Ive just had my scan.... and it's twins!!! Im so relieved, I had spotting this weekend and I expected bad news but both babies had a heartbeat beat

Such wonderful news, best of luck 🌹 … and ignore dr. Google :)

FlatWhiteAnyone · 03/03/2025 12:08

@bluebella2 warmest congratulations!!!! Hope the pregnancy goes well xx

bluebella2 · 03/03/2025 13:49

Thank you so much ☺️ I am so relieved, it's still very early but I am hopeful

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Annie1306 · 03/03/2025 15:03

Wonderful news @bluebella2 !! Double congratulations! 😀😀

Did you had two embryos transfered or 1 split into two ?

flipflop76 · 03/03/2025 15:04

Congratulations! I had my donor conceived DD at 43.

bluebella2 · 03/03/2025 15:15

@Annie1306 I transferred two, but only after multiple failed attempts! I thought I'd be lucky for one to stick ❤️

@flipflop76 thank you so much, I'm nervous being a bit older but I don't feel too old

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Twofromanotherkind · 03/03/2025 21:36

Hi

Thought I would comment on this. Am on the IVF March thread but was excited to see others on the same journey. Am doing the solo mother journey about to start my first IVF cycle on my next cycle. Got my pre treatment consultant appointment tomorrow and nurse planning appointment on Wednesday.

Congratulations on your pregnancy keeping my fingers crossed for you both

bluebella2 · 04/03/2025 05:47

@Twofromanotherkind thank you so much. That's very exciting news for you too. How are you feeling about it all? You'll need to let us know how things go?

@Annie1306 thinking of you! How are you feeling?

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Annie1306 · 04/03/2025 16:23

@bluebella2 , thank you ! I am okay and just trying to be calm. Not much symptoms other than few here and there and weird taste in mouth sometimes. Keeping my fingers crossed 🤞!

What's next for you? I don't know how do we go about after the first scan. Do you now need to let your GP know and they now take over or fertility team still owns it?

bluebella2 · 04/03/2025 19:07

@Annie1306 ive heard a few people mention a metallic taste? Its such a long wait for you, hopefully the bloods will give reassurance.

The ivf clinic have told me I need to register my pregnancy with a midwife so I checked online and I just had to send a form.. now I'm waiting again for a call!

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bluebella2 · 05/03/2025 07:41

I had a bit of a scare last night, started bleeding. And it's red blood ... I called out of hours epu and they said someone would call me today.

It seems to have calmed a bit today and I'm not cramping so I hope it's ok! I'll keep you posted incase anyone has similar

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