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Would I be stupid to file for final order? (Divorce)

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updownallaroundd · 12/12/2025 08:11

Hello, looking for some guidance please? πŸ™πŸ»

Conditional order was read on 8th November, meaning my final order can be applied for from 21st December.

Been a long, emotionally taxing divorce so far with a controlling and coercive ex husband, he has all of the wealth and I have nothing but debt πŸ’”

Both of us have had our MIAMs and mediation is scheduled for late February.

I’m desperate to be free of him before the new year starts. He’s put me through hell and my mental health has been so, so poor. I’ve been to and from doctors and mental health facilities all year.

Is there a way I can apply for the final order whilst still keeping the financial part of the divorce open? I hope we will come to a fair agreement in mediation, but I expect it may go to court as he has been secretive and difficult the entire process.

The divorce has been going on almost 3 years.

Mentally, I just need that slip of paper in my hands ( or email πŸ˜†) to say I’m no longer tied to him. I’m
Struggling so much.

Thank you πŸ™πŸ»

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