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Can I say no to this

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regal23 · 07/08/2025 14:05

So my ex and I have been separated 3.5 years .
He has been collecting dc Tues,wed,Thurs after work around 5pm and dropping back to me at 8am the following mornings. He takes him every Saturday 9am-5pm and every second Saturday 9am-12pm Sunday. He has sent me a message proposing he takes dc as usual Tues-Thurs but dropping him to school instead of back to me and then Saturday 9am-3pm and second Saturday 9am- 9am Sunday can I say no to this? If it goes to court will a court give him this ?

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AnneLovesGilbert · 07/08/2025 15:36

If his dad isn’t your problem your other kids aren’t his problem. He’s being reasonable.

Zempy · 07/08/2025 15:41

Why doesn’t he pay maintenance? Is it because of the overnights? They are pretty minimal but surely it’s better for you if he drops them to school?

I don’t understand what the problem is.

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