Just thought anyone in the same boat might like to keep in touch over the next few months and share how it's been so far and any issues etc
Although I told my husband on 17th September that I wanted out, I'd say it's probably this week that we have found a peace together and agreed to see how this will go living together and just being kind to each other, while living our seperate lives and Co parenting.
I'm already seeing positives ie he and kids are doing are lot more together and my oldest has said she enjoys their new Sunday routine together for example.
Therefore I get time to myself too which I am enjoying.
He's now accepted my decision and also accepts his part in the breakdown of the relationship.
I'm starting counselling at 5pm tonight so sort through my stuff.
I'm in a positive place today. While I know tomo could be different, I'll enjoy this while it lasts!