So chaps... I want to know, was losing your virginity a big deal for you

[pantoinghousewife]

Was discussing this with dh the other night and he didn't seem to think so but, to me it was.
I'll be honest I didn't go overboard about that to him (male pride and all).
I still remember feeling all shiny and new the next day and like a woman and it was a BIG event, (not great, but big, no, not like that, you swags).
So how was it for you?

My first time was crap! Really crap.
I remember thinking afterwards, what on earth did I want to do that for!
Took me nearly a year to do it again.
DP has never mentioned his really, I think it was a girl from college, but I'm really crap at thinking about him having been with anyone else
I do know I was his first for other things though

ROFL @ pantoing housewife and watersports. Thought twice about posting PMSL

Yes, I like the word crap today

I am now snorting tea out of nose!

he became a friend instead of anything more after he asked me on a date and i agreed, then on said date told me of his virginity

should that go on the weird men you have dated thread?

Oh yes it should, although there are some classics on there.

that's an interesting reaction
so no 'ambition' to be The First
as far as you ladies are concerned?

ah but he is so lovely i would feel mean

i must say it is obviously because of issues in his head , because he is really attractive, nice guy, all things going for him, and he has done practucally everything but penetrative sex

the thought of taking someones virginity at my age is not a turn on

they could either be traumatised for life or become an obssessive stalker

not good

fuck no thats the last thing on my mind

ooh no....

tho i have taken a boyf's virginity, but i was a teenager and so was he

I've done it, I've taken someones virginity more than once, and hate to think now that I'm what they thinkof as their 'First'!

my first time was with a fellow virgin

I know rather a lot of 30-something male virgins. Lovely guys, I think most of DP's friends from his Physics PhD and computer games industry jobs are still virgins.

I used to have a bit of a thing for shy geeky virgin types but went off them a bit, such hard work and the worry they'll take it all too seriously and become depressed or obsessive.

oh fennel really?

really virgins or really obsessive?

no another bit of your post