I’m due to get married in the next few months and we have downsized the wedding for safety, but have just been told that some of my closest family are refusing to have the vaccine. They are coming from overseas and told me they do not wish to discuss it and they refuse to allow me to disclose this to other guests.
I have a handful of vulnerable guests including my 98 year old Grandfather and I’m just not sure I can cope with the guilt of our event being the cause someone’s demise.
I also work for the NHS so I feel a sort of moral obligation.
I support people having total autonomy over whether they have the vaccine, I just don’t want to participate in the spread.
I’m really distraught and I know that other guests would choose not to come if they knew that guests weren’t vaccinated.
I really don’t know what to do. Any advice would be appreciated!