Having vaccine tomorrow, Ex-P sending horrible messages

[Anon778833]

I’m having the vaccine tomorrow. After a lot of careful thought.

My ex-P won’t stop sending me messages about how anyone who has the vaccine will be ‘dead within 5 years’

He was going on about a trial involving ferrets or something and Bobby Kennedy Junior.

I wasn’t going to tell him but then I thought I should because I might be a bit unwell afterwards (we have a child).

25 emails and 63 text messages later I’m regretting it. His mum had it without telling him. I can see why.

I can see why he's your ex.

I can see why he is an ex

Have you considered limiting his contact with you to email only and purely to arrange contact with the children ?

Wow...if he is an ex, why is it bothering him so much?

He sounds like an idiot, can his mum look after your child if you do feel unwell? She sounds a lot more sensible.

Er block his number?

Ignore him, tell him not to have it if he feels like that & to let you make decisions for yourself. He sounds a bit of a tool tbh

Never mind you maybe not feeling well tomorrow, he sounds unwell full stop.

If I’m unwell I do have support around me, I’m not afraid about that. He’s not rational and I’m finding it hard to deal with.

'Your mum had the vaccine without telling you, I can see why now. What a massive, massive steaming bellend you are.'

Obviously you probably won't-!!

I blocked his number so he started emailing. I can’t block the emails.

Just ignore him. The more you react, the more attention he gets.

Just Grey Rock him

Is it just this conspiracy he's into or has he generally lost his grip on reality?

As horrible as they are I would keep the messages in case his behaviour escalates and you need evidence in a custody dispute.

So sorry for your idiotic ex, is he just jealous. Don’t bother opening emails. Sounds like a lovely fellow.

God who could be arsed with that.

Delete and ignore.

In case*

He’s taking his advice from Bobby Kennedy Jr, who is no longer trusted to have an Instagram account for spreading false claims about the vaccine! You are absolutely correct to ignore him, and only communicate where necessary related to your child.

www.google.co.uk/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/technology/2021/feb/10/instagram-removes-anti-vaxxer-robert-f-kennedy-jr

I can see why he is your ex. Take no notice of the fool!

Set up an auto rule so the emails go into a separate folder entitled as you wish!

At least he’s your ex..

I’d block him for a couple days - he can text in an emergency.

You could set your emails to move his into a separate inbox like spam, so you don't automatically see them.

He sounds batshit. He is your ex. Just ignore him!

25 emails and 60+ texts??? Fuckin hell, he is seriously unwell. Does he usually pester and harass you op?

Wow at least you definitely have no regrets about that relationship ending. Covid can kill you and can have serious side affects even if you aren’t critically ill. The vaccine is thought by the best scientists in the world to be extremely safe. I know what I’d rather have.

Do you let him see your DC? I would seriously reconsider that as he is clearly irrational and not well to be sending that volume of abuse.

Ok lesson learnt.

Don't tell him anything else!