The miracle of speedy labours (No 1 Babies Detective Agency Part 7)

[nomoremagnolia]

Time for a new thread, here`s to speedy conceptions and speedy labours

Ahh, I mis'heard' you - I read dash and thought vibe I like them both tbh, I think I just like the clever-ness of the P&Ts double.
You're a very very good friend and kind person to consider egg donation. Never say never, but hopefully for the time being my eggs are good. Can I take a rain check for 10 years time though???
PS I'm symptom spotting like mad this cycle, even though I ought to know better The Clomid has got my hopes up!

Well I want to egg donate and if I can do it to help someone who I know will adore the baby and really wants it and would be the best mum, then that's all the better!! Of course u can rain check in 10 yrs, or one or five or whatever! I will let you know when I do it just incase it happens near a time you may need or want it, you know what I mean

Scorpio You are an amazing woman xx

Nah just baby mad :-) lol

[whispers: appear to be pregnant.]

really?? That's fantastic!!!!

Yay!!!!

Wow! Congratulations

Afraid I won't be joining you puree Would have been nice to do it together Oh well, fertility centre appointment next week, will see what they say about the L&D / HSG results.

Sorry to hear that nomore, keep going and hope your appointment goes well next week.

Think i can feel Smidge moving

Ahem i said i can feel the baby

MW check went well and despite v small bump baby growing perfectly very happy and relaxed now.

How are you all? Is Ready a mummy yet? I still don't know which buggy she bought

That's great news, Scorpio I didn't feel DS until about 22 weeks (I know it's usually late for the first one but even so) and was getting quite paranoid waiting for it. It must be very reassuring.

Nomore Sorry things are tough . It is not fair. Have you had your fertility centre appointment yet?

Ready Don't forget to come and let us know once you've had your baby Sits back and waits (im)patiently... Did you buy a bugaboo in the end then?!

Gilly How are things on the house front?

Hello to everyone else. DS is sound asleep (not for much longer, I suspect) so better make the most of it. He's still growing fast but is very contented and smiley.

Sorry Scorpio
When I last spoke to Ready (on Tues) there was no news of baby, she said she's let me know when she went into labour/hospital and I haven't heard anything yet.....btw she got a bug
Waiting for fertility centre to get back to me, will update you all tonight.

Gutted nomore- was hoping you could knit some Uggs for nomorette! (sounds like Nicorette!!!!)

Ready's name should be Readyornot!!!

bloody fertility clinic didn't get back to me after all. i rang them at 4.45 and apparently the secretary will ring me tomorrow to make an appointment for the doc to ring me....harumph! i'm so fed up

(((((((French hugs nomore)))))))

nomore thats so rude of them, its not like they are ringing you about a bloody pair of shoes or something!

I'm glad she got a Bug she will love it We have a Bug Bee at the mo, but must buy a P&T for Smidge and Mimi.

It's only little movements, not 'kicks' as such, but still

3 weeks today 20 week scan

Hi girls it's been very quiet, what are you all up to?

Am still here (well occasionally). Thanks for bumping us out of oblivion, Nomore . What's the latest from your fertility clinic?

DS is coming along nicely and keeping us entertained. He seems to have stopped his frequent cluster feeding in the evenings which gives me a bit more freedom (though had got quite used to being waited on by DH!) though at the moment it does seem that he's not lasting as long without waking at night as a result.

I found Ready's birth story on the pregnancy TTC Grads thread for anyone that hasn't already read it - bit of a feat of endurance but well done Ready.

The fertility clinic want to run yet more tests, to be honest I'm not really 'engaged' in it at the moment, it's just another hoop to jump through before we can go for IVF again, which won't be for a while yet as we need to save up the cash. So really we're not doing anything constructive, just being processed through the system

keep going nomore

Scan tomorrow here

A GIRL

yay!! so amazing.

Scorpio yay another girlie so not Dexter then....
LL hello, how are you getting on? The tests they want to do are because when they did the L&D after the EP they thought they saw scarring in the uterus, which would meant that the problem is with implantation. If that's the case then IVF doesn't give us any better chance of a sucessful pg so there's little point in wasting £4k on it. They want to look again to be sure if it's really there or not as the HSG I had didn't suggest there was scarring, so there's an element of uncertainty about this scarring. Have spoken to the clinic about egg sharing but not sure about it yet. I don't have a problem with sharing as such, but I'm not sure I could do it until I had a child of my own. If I never have a kid and my sharer did I'm not sure how I'd feel. Also because of adoption rules I'd be a known donor, so the kid could find out who I am at age 18, which could be hard if by that time I've had to resolve myself to never having kids. If we manage one kid then I would consider egg sharing to fund a second child as I don't expect we will have the disposable income once we've had number one!