confu3ed - so sorry to hear of your bad news, i was offered clomid, as was having irreguar periods, and had to have a major op as the scans before being given clomid showed I had a HUGE cyst in my right ovarie, (which was over 12cm big!). The process depends on locations of where you live. I had blood tests, scans, die test, then DH had to give sample, then we got clomid. Ours took a year from 1st appointment, but thats also due to the operation, someone I know had clomid within 2 months. Clomid comes from the NHS, as its the cheapest, yet most effective way to help concieve. I also went through a massive stage where I felt useless, and to blame, and I guess I still do... but what we need to rememember is that we have an amazing partner and what will be will be. When you start clomid you will start to feel more positive and as though it can happen! My prog levels were REALLY low, and after my 1st course of clomid, I have my day 21 blood test tomorrow to find out if they have increased, and indeed if I have ovulated.. we were busy on the right days - so fingers crossed! Try not to get so worked up over this... as that could be why your not getting pregnant, stress is a high factor to why couples do not concieve!
roastie -- oohh exciting - so keep us posted!!! clomid can turn some women physco! but so long as you keep focused on the positives its easier. There are so many horrid stories about clomid, and I wnt lie to you - the week of taking it I was very emotional and it was hard... yet my hubby kept reminding me of why we were doing it, telling me not to get stressed as it wil not help, I was really confused about it all, but now I have had first round of clomid it all makes more sense.
I had to take provera to induce my bleed for me to take the clomid on days 2-6 of bleed. I had to take the provera as my periods were non exsistant! it worked 1st time, then started clomid day 2-6, then 3 days after last bleed I started the ovulation sticks - which show the LH surge (the surge that shows you will ovulate in 24-36 hours). I got this 7 days later, wo was due to ovulate D16. (clomid can make your cycles longer). Then I have my blood test day 21 to see if I have ovulated, depending on how high my progestone levels are.... does this help/make sense?... its not as scary or hard as some people make out... just stay strong, remember what you aiming for, and make sure your partners support your mood swings etc!
baby dust to you all xxx